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Being a mother is exhausting, a big problem when you don't want to go to school.

When you reach school age

Mother Nat is like all parents who want to choose the best school for their children.

Everything looked good in the early days. You enjoyed going to school a lot.

I've been in school for a year and a half, but in the last year and a half,

You get stressed out before you leave home, crying.

Vomiting and not wanting to go to school until it's late every day.

At first I thought I was just lazy, but finally the condition grew harder until birth every day.

You don't eat very well, thin, and often rush to come home quickly.

You don't talk, you don't tell.

The teacher said you were introverted, didn't communicate, didn't play with your friends, didn't talk to the teacher, so she took you to a psychologist.

And I began to understand that the school might not be wrong, but it didn't suit your identity.

As you can see, my child is a child who likes to think and analyze.

Interested in science, technology and STEM experiments.

The latter decided to shift the school to an activity-oriented environment.

Believe it... just a week, everything changed.

You never vomit again. You want to go to school with a smile.

And 100% happier.

Want to leave that

One kid doesn't just have to be "good."

But to be where he is himself.

If you start wrong, but you know and dare to fix it, it's not late. 🤍

Now, when I tell this story, Mother Nat still feels guilty. The bag is still stuck in the car, but it's almost no longer needed today.

💬 Anyone who has experienced similar experiences can exchange.

2025/12/21 Edited to

... Read moreเป็นเรื่องปกติที่พ่อแม่จะต้องเผชิญกับความกังวลเมื่อเห็นลูกไม่อยากไปโรงเรียน เพราะสาเหตุเหล่านี้มักซ่อนผลกระทบทางจิตใจและอารมณ์ที่เด็กต้องเผชิญอยู่ บางครั้งเด็กอาจรู้สึกไม่สบายใจหรือไม่เข้ากับสภาพแวดล้อมที่โรงเรียนเดิม ส่งผลให้เกิดปัญหาทางพฤติกรรม เช่น ร้องไห้ก่อนออกจากบ้าน อาเจียน หรือป่วยบ่อยครั้ง ซึ่งสิ่งเหล่านี้ไม่ควรถูกมองว่าเป็นแค่ความขี้เกียจ แต่ควรได้รับความเข้าใจและแก้ไขอย่างจริงจัง นอกจากการสังเกตพฤติกรรมของเด็กแล้ว การพูดคุยอย่างเปิดใจและการให้โอกาสเด็กแสดงความรู้สึก รวมถึงการร่วมมือกับครูและผู้เชี่ยวชาญ เช่น นักจิตวิทยาเด็ก จะช่วยค้นหาสาเหตุที่แท้จริงได้ดียิ่งขึ้น นอกจากนี้ การเลือกโรงเรียนหรือสภาพแวดล้อมที่เหมาะสมกับบุคลิกภาพและความสนใจของลูก เช่น โรงเรียนที่เน้นการเรียนรู้แบบ STEM หรือกิจกรรมที่กระตุ้นความคิดสร้างสรรค์และความสนใจเฉพาะตัว จะช่วยส่งเสริมให้เด็กมีความสุขและมีพัฒนาการที่เหมาะสม สิ่งสำคัญคืออย่าปล่อยให้ปัญหาบานปลายจนส่งผลกระทบต่อสุขภาพจิตและร่างกายของเด็ก เราควรให้ความสำคัญกับการปรับตัวและแก้ไขอย่างรวดเร็ว เพื่อให้ลูกได้เติบโตในสภาพแวดล้อมที่เขาสามารถเป็นตัวของตัวเองอย่างแท้จริงและมีความสุขกับการเรียนรู้ นี่คือกุญแจสำคัญที่ทำให้เด็กมีสุขภาพจิตดีและพร้อมพัฒนาศักยภาพของตนเองอย่างเต็มที่ พ่อแม่คนไหนที่กำลังเจอปัญหานี้ไม่ต้องกังวลเกินไป เพราะการรู้ทันและกล้าที่จะเปลี่ยนแปลงจะนำไปสู่ความสุขและความสำเร็จของลูกในที่สุด

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