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how long did it take you? 💔

This is a ✨safe✨ space.

How long did it take you to get over someone you loved deeply? 🖤

(This question is inclusive of all relationship types—romantic, platonic, mentor/mentee, child/parent, etc.)

#letschat #relationships #unfiltered #movingon #closure

2025/1/30 Edited to

Healing after losing someone we deeply loved can be a challenging journey. Whether it’s a romantic partner, a friend, or a family member, the time it takes to move on varies greatly among individuals. Factors such as the depth of the relationship, circumstances surrounding the loss, and personal emotional resilience play vital roles in the healing process. Many people find comfort in sharing their experiences, as collective wisdom can help others navigate their own grief. Engaging in open discussions about relationships, closure, and moving on can create a supportive community where one feels safe. Research suggests that expressing emotions, whether through conversation or creative outlets, aids in the healing process. Additionally, professional support from therapists or counselors can provide constructive coping strategies, helping individuals process their feelings in a healthy manner. Techniques such as mindfulness, journaling, or engaging in activities that inspire joy can be beneficial. Overall, while there's no set timeline for healing, recognizing that it is a personal journey can help individuals find their own path towards closure and emotional well-being.

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You never really get over the loss. You just learn to live with it. Day by day, you try to cry less.Some days are better than others. Then, one day, you wake up they are still with you, but it just doesn't hurt as much has it did.

Never - just hurts less when you think less of them by staying busy

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