Sleep suddenly... Why is it enough to put into bed to cry immediately? 👶🏻💤

🌷 Why are you asleep suddenly, but when you put it down and wake up immediately?

This is one of the moments that almost every parent in the house should have met. 😂

When carrying... very close sleep

But only after touching the couch

👀 Get up.

😣. Frown.

😭 and sing immediately.

Until sometimes we can't help thinking

"Don't you sleep or do we do something wrong?"

It doesn't mean the baby is carried or carried.

For babies, the transition from "arms" to "mattress" is a change felt at once.

When you were with us, you were warm, touching, lightly moving, and had a familiar sound or smell.

But when you put it down...

Those feelings immediately changed.

And in the early months, your nervous system is still developing, and sleep is not as mature, so you wake up very easily, especially when you change posture or change from movement to static space.

Another common is Moro reflex or flinch reflex.

When you feel like you're falling or you're changing your position quickly, you can spread your arms, flinch, and wake up.

So sometimes...

You don't "don't want to sleep."

But his body also doesn't handle the transition between carrying and sleeping well. 🤍

So how do we help you?

🌷 Try reducing quick posture changes.

🌷 Hold until the baby is calm and the body is relaxed before laying.

🌷 when you lay down, slowly strengthen yourself.

🌷 The latter may gently place the hand on the body for a moment before gradually withdrawing the hand.

🌷 Keep the atmosphere calm and consistent. Without the need to keep the house completely quiet every time.

But there is one thing that is much more important than "How to put your child away"

Is to put the baby to sleep safely.

When the baby is going to sleep, it should be placed supine on a hard, smooth, untilted surface. Use a mattress suitable for the baby and a fitted sheet, with no pillows, dolls, loose blankets or soft items in the sleeping area.

And if possible, let your child sleep in the same room as your parents, but your own bed, not the same bed as adults, because it reduces the risk of death associated with infant sleep (American Academy of Pediatrics).

As for the matter, many houses worry that

"Hold often. The baby will be carried."

Don't blame yourself. 🤍

Carrying and touching and comforting a child when he cries does not mean that we are indulging in him.

The baby is still very small. And singing is one of the ways he communicates with us.

Hungry then cry

Sleepy then cried

I was sick and cried.

Want to help calm, cry

Sometimes he might not want anything more.

"Let's stay close, Mom." 🥹

But if the baby cries very irregularly, cries squeaky or comforting, has fever, abnormal breathing, seeps, refuses to eat milk, vomits a lot, or does not look the same, the doctor should evaluate it because it should not include that every cry is "carried."

Finally...

We don't need to make you "drop and don't cry" every time.

Some days successfully placed

Some days, put ten rounds, still wake up. 😂

It doesn't mean we're not good at raising children.

We're just learning that

What does this child want and what helps him feel most comfortable?

And for Ma Mee...

If you still want to carry a little more today

Just hold it. 🤍

As long as you're asleep, we keep the sleeping area safe.

Because of carrying children to love

With a safe mattress for your child.

These two can be done together. 🌷

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