83% Thais Are Lonely: The Working Love Lesson of "Mei Li

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🎈 everyone says that working life is harder to find a girlfriend than in school, which is true that most single people face, because when they enter the world of work, the time and opportunity to meet new people to develop relationships is obviously reduced.

"I'm lonely.... I've been eating alone for almost two months."

Believe that when we were children, it would be so lonely. Mei Li and just not having a girlfriend. ‼️

But do you know that according to the "survey, Thais are 83% loneliness, 18% loneliness and 65% moderate loneliness, caused by a lack of mental and social connection activities?" Reference: Hfocus https://www.hfocus.org/content/2025/10/35530

Why is working age hard to find a girlfriend? ❓

The main reasons for the challenge of finding love at this age are:

• Tight Life Schedule: Most of the time is spent working from morning to evening (or late at night), leaving so little personal time that there is almost no energy to social activities or dating.

• Narrowing social circle: When you graduate, the life cycle is usually limited to work and home, so your chances of getting to know someone outside the same circle are greatly reduced.

• Cumulative fatigue: After work, many people feel exhausted, want to rest, do not want to go out, unfortunately miss the opportunity to meet new people.

• Higher expectations: At this age, we are more mature and have some life experience, making the choice of a partner more serious and may have more detailed selection criteria than in school, work or many things (but if you really love each other, this can be overlooked).

And where to find a girlfriend from?

Despite looking hard, there are still avenues and ways to help you expand your chances of meeting the right person:

1. Make good use of digital technology

• Dating Apps: The most popular channel in this era because it can easily and quickly filter and choose people who are interested in a specification that is close to you, but should create an interesting profile and really be yourself.

2. Use "hobby" as a bridge.

• Activities and Workshops: Enroll in a short course or attend a workshop you are really interested in, such as a cooking class, yoga, language class, or going to a music festival. Doing activities together will bring dialogue and see the identity of the other in a natural environment.

• Exercise: Go to fitness, group running, cycling because you will meet people who care about health and have a similar active lifestyle.

3. Expand the original social circle

• Friend of a Friend: This is a classic channel that usually works well. Try telling a close friend that you are looking for someone so they can help introduce an interesting acquaintance to it. Starting from a friend's acquaintance often has a certain degree of credibility.

• Open Up With Colleagues (Carefully): Although many people do not recommend it, there are many couples who find love at work. If you decide to try, be sure to consider the pros and cons and frustrations if the relationship is to end whether you can both work or see each other again.

The most important thing is to open up and manage time. You may need to set aside 1-2 days a week for activities outside your home to increase your opportunities for yourself and not to put too much pressure on yourself. Making dating is fun to learn and get to know new people.

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