Checklist: Men's red flag in women's eyes🚩

Maybe a man's red flag doesn't have to look far. Just watch when he starts "not trying" like at first.

1. Speak well when flirting. When dating and disappearing - when flirting is a sweet line, enough is ghost. 🫠 → consistency is more important than sweet words.

2. Like to say, "Don't like women is complicated" - does it mean you don't try to understand her in the first place 🧃 → Women aren't complicated, just complicated in a way that you want to pay attention to?

3. Pretend not to understand when a woman is touchy - "She doesn't speak. How to know?" = A sentence that makes the situation worse. Women want to understand the "atmosphere," not just the words 💭.

4.Drama and small things and then disappear - the silence is gone. So that the boyfriend reconciles is very toxic. It doesn't look cool. It looks young. 🤷‍♂️

5. Make women have to start all the time - start talking, start planning, start reconciling → Finally, women will start to lose heart. 🖤

6. Never really listen. Just wait to talk back. - When women vent, they don't want to solve the problem immediately, they want to listen. → Empathy is the real green flag. 🫶

7. Joking when a woman is serious - "Just kidding yourself" is a sentence that destroys a lot of sensitivity because a woman really wants her to listen, not to laugh.

8. Not apologizing, even if you are at fault - Ego kills a relationship faster than the word "break up." Sorry first doesn't mean losing, but it's being an adult.

9. Only good words, but no actions - "speak because" is not equal to "pay attention." Women look at consistency, not 💬

10. Make the other person guess what they feel - if not honestly how they feel, women feel insecure. Clarity = stability.

If you know which one is straight, don't stress. Just start adjusting, it's getting closer to being a green flag. 🌿

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