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"Gentle but not weak."

Being kind doesn't mean anyone can do anything to us.

Mildness is power... not vulnerability to anyone.

We are willing to honor everyone.

But it also asks him to respect "our boundaries."

Because people who value themselves... will not devalue themselves.

For anyone to be comfortable with one side

Our hearts can be gentle... but do not give anyone to hurt at will.

Take good care of yourself and be powerful in our own way. 🩵

@SmileWithMe 🍃

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