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Buy a new house or live with your parents?

I have to say before I am an only child. But with 31, I want to have my own property, so consult my parents about buying a house. But you do not agree because I do not want us to be in long-term debt. If I repay the house, I have 20-30 years. I said that this house is the last of my children. The house was already built for my children. This house was a 1-storey wooden house. But the new Reno parents, my friends are suitable for the slides that I like, I will say that it makes my children live. But the children want to build debt. Parents say that this era is not indebted is the best.

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