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🚨How to go to my girlfriend's house for the first time, call my cousin?⁉️

Chinese people call relatives, not the same!

🇨🇳 Teochew vs Mandarin. What's the difference?

Is that most Thai people are familiar with the Teochew accent

Many people know the word "Ama Agong."

But actually... that's a Teochew accent.

If it is Mandarin (), it will be called in another way. 👇

👵 Grandparents.

❤️ Grandfather.

Teochew: (Ah Gong)

Mandarin: (yéye / yes ye)

❤️ Grandma.

Teochew: (Ama)

Mandarin: (nhi inai / nai)

❤️ eyes.

Teochew: (Kai Gong)

Mandarin: (wà ing / Swimming Gong)

❤️ Grandma.

Teochew: (Guaima)

Mandarin: (wàipó / swimling husband)

👨‍👩‍👧. Parents.

❤️ Dad.

Teochew: /

Mandarin: (bàba / aunt patch)

❤️ Mom.

Teochew: /

Mandarin: (máma / mama)

👦 brothers.

❤️, brother.

Teochew: (Ahia)

Mandarin: (gà ge / guÃ)

❤️, sister.

Teochew: (Ah Je)

Mandarin: (jijie / jiajia)

❤️, brother.

Teochew: (Ate)

Mandarin: (dšdi / tity)

❤️, sister.

Teochew: (Aboi)

Mandarin: (mèimei / mei mei)

👨‍👩‍👧 Uncle, Aunt Ah (Mandarin is very fine!)

❤️ Uncle (father's brother)

Teochew: (paste)

Mandarin: (bóbo / pop)

❤️ Ah (father's brother)

Teochew: (Czech Czech)

Mandarin: (shuushu / shuushu)

❤️ Aunt (my sister)

Teochew: (Gowgo)

Mandarin: (gugu / guku)

❤️ Uncle (my brother)

Teochew: (deflated hood)

Mandarin: (jiöjiu / jiu jiu)

❤️ Aunt / Aunt (Mother's Sister)

Teochew: (E)

Mandarin:

💬 Summary

Familiar Thai words like Akong Ama Hya

Really is a Teochew accent.

But if going to the mainland Chinese house,

You will hear the words yéye nhi inai gà ge jišjie instead of 🥰🇨🇳

In case of Chinese New Year, who will go to the girlfriend's house in China?

Tell Trick now

We went for the first time, couldn't remember anything.

Tutor before getting home. To not forget, haha.

# Love story # Relationship narrative # Trick love

# Love experience # Foreign fans

2/11 Edited to

... Read moreการไปรู้จักครอบครัวแฟนครั้งแรกเป็นเรื่องสำคัญและน่าตื่นเต้น โดยเฉพาะถ้าแฟนของเรามีเชื้อสายจีนซึ่งมีภาษาและคำเรียกญาติแตกต่างกันอย่างชัดเจนระหว่างสำเนียงแต้จิ๋วและจีนกลาง จากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัวที่ได้ไปบ้านแฟนชาวจีนครั้งแรก ความจริงคือเราเองก็งงกับคำเรียกญาติที่ใช้ในแต่ละพื้นที่และแต่ละภาษาในจีนมาก เพราะคำที่เคยได้ยิน เช่น "อากง อาม่า" นั้นเป็นสำเนียงแต้จิ๋วที่คนไทยส่วนใหญ่คุ้นเคยนั่นเอง แต่ถ้าเป็นพูดกับครอบครัวแฟนในแผ่นดินใหญ่ ภาษาจีนกลางจะใช้คำที่ต่างกัน เช่น ปู่เรียกว่า "เย่เย (爷爷)", ย่าเรียก "หน่ายไน (奶奶)" เป็นต้น ซึ่งถ้าไม่รู้ก็ตกใจเหมือนกันว่าควรเรียกอย่างไรให้เหมาะสมและแสดงความเคารพ นอกจากนี้ยังมีคำเรียกพ่อแม่ พี่น้อง และป้า ลุง น้า อา ในรูปแบบจีนกลางซึ่งมีความละเอียดและชัดเจนมาก การที่เราเตรียมตัวศึกษาคำศัพท์เหล่านี้ก่อนจะช่วยให้เรารู้สึกมั่นใจมากขึ้นและแสดงความตั้งใจที่ดีต่อครอบครัวแฟน สิ่งที่สำคัญที่สุดคือการเปิดใจเรียนรู้วัฒนธรรมและภาษาของแฟน เพื่อให้ความสัมพันธ์ของคนสองบ้านแน่นแฟ้นขึ้น และอย่ากลัวที่จะถามหรือขอให้ช่วยสอนคำเรียกญาติให้ถูกต้อง เพราะนี่คือการแสดงความเคารพและความรักอย่างหนึ่ง สุดท้าย แนะนำให้ทบทวนคำศัพท์ที่จำเป็นไว้ก่อนไปพบญาติ หรือแม้แต่จดไว้ในมือถือเพื่อใช้เวลาจำเป็น จะช่วยลดความกังวลและทำให้ครั้งแรกที่ไปบ้านแฟนเป็นประสบการณ์ที่ดีและน่าจดจำ

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