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When your heart signals

Many people live by being very good at "forced."

Forced to wake up early to a place where my heart doesn't want to go

Forcing to smile at people who never understand

Forced to do the role that the world says it should be

Deep down inside, I know this isn't the life I want.

We are forced because of fear, fear, insecurity, fear of disappointed people.

Fear of the verdict of society

And the most afraid is that if you choose your heart,

Life will be broken, but the truth is,

Daily self-reliance

That slowly broke us down in silence.

Unnamed fatigue.

Indescribable boredom.

The emptiness that, despite everything,

But I don't feel alive.

These are not weakness.

It's a sign that our hearts can't really do it anymore.

"It's time to choose a life that doesn't force yourself anymore."

Doesn't mean we have to throw everything away.

Not to resign immediately.

Don't cut anyone out of life

Not to change yourself overnight.

But it's to "stop fooling yourself."

Stop saying I can't.

Stop saying you like it, even if you can bear it.

Stop using the word duty as an excuse.

In exchange for repeated self-harm,

Choosing a new life.

Maybe start by daring to listen to a small voice in your heart.

That asks us every night that

"Without proving anything to anyone,

What kind of life does she really want to live? "

Some people discovered that.

He wants to have time to breathe.

Want to wake up without feeling overwhelmed

Want to work without redeeming heart health

Want to live slower but more yourself

Uncompromising life choices

It's not selfish self-centered.

But it's self-respect.

Because people who don't respect themselves

There may not be a force to really take care of anyone.

The day you dare choose yourself may not be easy, there may be tears.

There may be fear. There may be people who don't understand.

But you always get one thing back.

Is the comfort of the heart.

"At least today I didn't betray myself."

And that's it.

Is the beginning of a real new life.

A life that's not perfect, but honest with the heart.

And really mean something to you.

Life always starts over and starts immediately.

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