Make the time !
Yesterday one of my friends called me out on something that was bothering him. He said, “If you get one of my texts and you can’t talk, just say ‘I’m busy, I’ll text you later.’” Then he said something that hit me hard, “It’s just RESPECT. It only takes 13 seconds.”
I told him I was busy and forgot to text back. Then he dropped a bomb on me, “I would never do that to you.”
Wow. That hit deep.
It made me think about how easy it is to take good people and long friendships for granted. A month ago I lost one of my Kaju brothers. I kept telling myself I was too busy to reach out. Now I wish I had one more text, one more call, one more moment.
Life moves fast, but never get too busy for the people who care about you. A simple text can mean the world to someone. One small reply can show love, respect, and appreciation.
From this day on, I promised my friend that no matter how busy life gets, I will acknowledge the text. Even if I can’t talk, I’ll let them know they matter.
Don’t wait until it’s too late to show people you care. Friendships are priceless. Protect them. Respect them. Appreciate them. Let’s go make amazing things happen today. God is good all the time and all the time God is good.
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In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in work, chores, and personal commitments, often leaving little time for meaningful connections. However, as I reflect on this heartfelt story about respect and communication, I'm reminded how a brief moment—a simple text or acknowledgment—can nurture bonds that would otherwise weaken over time. I've experienced firsthand the importance of replying promptly, even if just to say "I'm busy, will get back to you later." It takes less than 15 seconds, yet it continuously reinforces respect and shows that you value someone’s presence in your life. Like the author’s friend mentioned, it's a matter of respect—something I’ve learned to appreciate more deeply after losing close friends without having the chance to properly say goodbye. Furthermore, the mention of brotherhood within martial arts, such as Kajukenbo, reminded me that those tight-knit communities emphasize respect, discipline, and support beyond just physical training. This sense of family teaches us that maintaining connections, even digitally, strengthens our well-being and emotional health. On a personal note, I started making it a habit to quickly acknowledge texts as soon as I can, even during hectic moments. This shift has made a huge difference, both to myself and those I care for. It's reassuring for friends and family to know they matter, irrespective of our busy schedules. Ultimately, this reflection teaches us that life is unpredictable. We shouldn't wait until it's too late to express our care and appreciation. Every small moment of communication builds trust and affection, keeping friendships alive and vibrant. So go ahead—make the time. It costs nothing and can mean everything.
