♪ Inconvenient, but it's not about anyone else either

Lately, if someone is forty years old and still has fun dressing, still listens to new music, still wants to go to concerts, often teased "not getting old," if they are fifty years old and still take care of themselves, they will say, "Oh, still look young," as a compliment, but secretly listen to it, and it is strange that if one day looks older, does it mean that we are wrong?

Words like Young 40 or hashtags.♪ Inconvenient toSo it's not just funny, it's like telling each other to grow up, but don't grow up, get old, but don't make it obvious.

In fact, who wants to get old when it's not yet time, no one gets up early to think that it's better to wither today, but people just want to live it okay, and there's something to be excited about, and they don't feel exhausted too quickly.

The author talked to many people in their fifties and upwards, no one said that they were afraid of getting old. What they said was tired, tired of work, tired of expenses, tired of responsibility, tired of news, tired of the world, but still wanted something small for themselves to rest.

Some people are happy to go for a morning walk. Some people wait for the holidays to meet old friends. Some people still collect money to buy their favorite things. Some people still sit and watch a concert on YouTube and lollipop at home. It's not because they want to go back to being children, but they don't want life to be too dry.

The self-care of a person of this age does not mean that he wants to compete with teenagers, but that he does not let himself collapse, because he knows that if the body breaks, the heart breaks, and life becomes much more tired.

In fact, grown people are not people who have to stop having fun, but people who still know how to take care of themselves and laugh at life.

The problem is not that old people are also fun. The problem is that we like to decide which kind, which "should," which "shouldn't," when it doesn't concern us at all.

You're in your twenties and thirties today, maybe you don't feel anything, but for a moment, you'll be in our queue, and when you never ask anyone if you're ready, a good-looking person in his fifties isn't lucky, he just doesn't leave himself early.

Fashion is one thing, age is another, mixed together to become right and wrong, tired.

If you still have the strength to misunderstand how people of this age should dress, what music they should listen to, what kind of life they should live, which means that you are still free to spend time in your life dealing with things that are not about yourself.

Because a person who is really busy taking care of his own life, he does not have time to sit and judge other people's happiness.

Pointing the finger at who "tries to be young," who "doesn't know age," who "doesn't look right" doesn't make you look older, it just announces to the world that you still have to push others down to make yourself feel taller.

If other people's happiness makes you so frustrated, the problem isn't his. The problem is your life.

Because a person with his life is focused enough, he never feels like taking anyone's life, so before laughing at someone who still enjoys life in his forties, fifties, sixties, ask yourself if you have taken good care of your body, mind, and future today, and if you still take the time to take care of your life.

The world doesn't lack another amateur critic, but it lacks people who dare to live their lives well... right?

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