Everybody wants a man who loves and respects his mother. And everybody wants a good relationship with their mother-in-law. But what we DON’T want is to be in a relationship with a man who is psychologically married to his mother. 🚩 There’s a HUGE difference between a healthy mother-son relati

Just because someone saves you when you’re at your lowest doesn’t mean they celebrate your wins. Envy is a confusing thing. #envy #jealousy #fyp

I’d like to thank 21-year-old me for knowing what my future son needed 13 years later. I always wondered who I was writing this song for. #motherhood #sleepybaby #fyp #songwriter

Thank you, baby @aallen88 #thankyou #thankyoubaby #fyp

Sometimes what looks like obsession is actually someone desperately trying to regain a sense of safety, stability, or control after experiencing abuse. When someone has been emotionally, psychologically, or physically abused, their behavior afterward may not always make sense to people looking i

@Annabelle Dinda You have a fan from the womb. 🤍

Being the victim of narcissistic abuse does not mean you’re incapable of becoming the person engaging in harmful behavior. After a toxic relationship, the need for answers, accountability, or justice can turn into obsession, harassment, stalking, and retaliation. Your trauma may explain your beh

You can come vibe with me, and I’ll show you the way. Another second with the narcissist is another second spent away from the life you were meant to live. Message me if you want out or if you want to know how to manage a narcissist who HAS to stay in your life. You don’t have to be a slave to the

#stitch with @the_sovereign_spirit The things that make a narcissist panic about losing you are usually the exact things that help you finally leave them. Stop chasing. Stop explaining. Stop managing their emotions. Build a life that belongs to you again. The goal isn’t to make them obsessed w

#stitch with @PhoenixUntaped Sometimes your body knows something is wrong long before your brain figures out what it is. You’re researching your health, your environment, your habits—everything except the relationship. And then you leave, and suddenly you don’t need to search for answers anymore.

#stitch with @PhoenixUntaped Sometimes your body knows something is wrong long before your brain figures out what it is. You’re researching your health, your environment, your habits—everything except the relationship. And then you leave, and suddenly you don’t need to search for answers anymore.

Leave now. I can help you. #narcissist #narcissism #life #manifestation #motherhood

Sometimes they weren’t intentionally pretending in the beginning; sometimes they just presented a version of themselves they couldn’t maintain. But you don’t have to keep making excuses for the difference. You’re allowed to notice when the communication, consistency, effort, or consideration cha

Replying to @Stefanie You’re going to turn 50 either way. The question is: what do you want your life to look like when you get there? If you feel called to work with survivors of abuse, trauma, coercive control, or toxic relationships, you have options. You can pursue the degree, licensur

A few days ago, I was texting one of my closest friends who just started her graduate program in counseling. She’s already incredibly well-versed in the narcissistic abuse community, coercive control, and psychological abuse because she’s been through it, spent years learning about it on her own, s

Yes, we are ALL dating the same guy. we all have been dating the same guy and we are not alone. These stories all feel same for a reason. These stories all look the same for a reason. These stories all seem the same for a reason. That’s because these stories are all the same no matter how you spi

If you’re going on “are we dating the same guy” and the guy has stories, pay attention. It doesn’t matter if all of the stories align or if it all makes sense. It never will. Trust the women who are reporting; believe us. #arewedatingthesameguy #narcissist #narcissism #bpd #npd

#duet with @Mia kirkland #djo

It doesn’t matter what sort of relationship you were making look good on social media. It only matters that you were making it look good. It wasn’t good. But you felt like you had to live up to the societal standard. You don’t have to anymore. Stop pretending. never feel like you need to play this

Replying to @itstartswith1 I made the original video to be a mouthpiece for the women who have never had a safe place to tell these stories. And the comments made one thing very clear: there are A LOT of them. Labor is one of the most vulnerable moments of a woman’s life. You shouldn’t also h