Working with people who do not listen... How to make the heart not tired

In our work, we often have to meet a variety of people, some easy to understand, easy to talk, but some people "don't listen to anyone's opinion," no matter how good an idea is, it's like we're switched off. Awkward feelings can happen, but it's not like we can't live together if we have the right way and a stable enough mind.

🔹 1. Understand his basics first.

The behavior of not listening can be caused by many reasons, such as anxiety, fear of work mistakes, being blamed, or thinking of standing one all the time. If we look at him with understanding rather than anger, we will cope more easily and not feel tired more than necessary.

🔹 2. Use information and reason rather than feeling.

People who rarely listen often listen to "facts" rather than "opinions."

Let's propose an idea with supporting information, such as numbers, results, or obvious pros-cons, that will help him open up.

🔹 3. Choose the rhythm and the ideal way to communicate.

Sometimes speaking at a convention can make him set up a wall.

Let's turn it into a private speech, a calm speech, or a short summary in chat for him to think about.

The right way to communicate... reduces the impact on you and him a lot.

🔹 4. Keep the boundaries. So that our hearts are not too tired.

If he doesn't really listen until he starts to hit the mind, don't force yourself.

Set boundaries, such as "offer what should be offered," and then release what is out of control.

Work is work. People are people. If we can separate, our hearts are not tired.

🔹 5. Give the result as proof.

Sometimes trying to explain a lot can be as ineffective as "making it see."

When your ideas start to have real results, they may start to get more open without force.

🔹 6. Don't forget that you yourself have value.

Not listening doesn't mean your ideas are worthless.

Your mind is still powerful and meaningful. Just maybe it's not up to the pace he'll accept.

Don't devalue yourself because someone can't see.

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🌈 Finally... don't forget to take care of your heart.

Working with someone who doesn't listen to anyone can be exhausting, but remember that your tenderness, professionalism and sanity are what make you different and grow.

Do your best and let go of something out of control.

Because in the working world, the thing we control the most... is our own mind. ✨

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