Guys come on fr? lol
🧐 Little context here. Came across this awesome woman in my fyp. She had posted a progression video. Clearly had come a really long way. Put in a ton of work to get as cut as she is now. So I go to the comments to show some support and I see a bunch of really rude and disrespectful comments towards her. Guys essentially saying she looks like a guy and some even said things like "ew" and "gross". These comments were from men who at first glance look like they do not lift or exercise at all. First of all people. If you don't have something nice to say. Why say it? Is this a normal occurrence for women that lift and exercise?
🤔🖤 Now I'm seriously curious. What does that make men? I think logically what I said makes sense. Come on guys be better. The world sucks enough these days. smh. 🙄
It's important to recognize the unique challenges that women encounter in the fitness world, particularly when it comes to societal perceptions and negative comments. Many women who lift weights face criticism that often centers around outdated gender norms—comments suggesting that being muscular or fit somehow makes them less feminine or attractive. This kind of feedback can be discouraging and unfair, especially when it overlooks the dedication and hard work they put into achieving their fitness goals. The phrase from the OCR content, such as "WEIGHTS LOOKS LIKE WOMAN WHO LIFTS A GUY," reflects the common misconception that women who lift weights start to lose their femininity or resemble men. This stereotype is not only inaccurate but also harmful because it undermines women's autonomy over their bodies and fitness choices. Building muscle and getting cut is a personal achievement, and it contributes to overall health, strength, and confidence. Unfortunately, such disrespectful comments by some men, as mentioned in the article, often come from individuals who might not have a real understanding of fitness or the effort it takes. Supporting each other by fostering positive and encouraging environments—such as #GymLife and #bekind spaces online and offline—can make a significant difference. Everyone deserves respect regardless of their appearance or lifestyle choices. In recent years, the fitness community has grown more inclusive, celebrating diverse body types and empowering women to embrace strength as a form of beauty. GymTok and similar platforms have helped highlight inspiring journeys of transformation, breaking stereotypes and encouraging conversations about body positivity. Recognizing and challenging negative comments is a step towards creating a healthier, more supportive community that values progress and kindness over judgment and stereotypes. Ultimately, if we commit to encouraging rather than tearing others down—whether online or in real life—we contribute to a more positive culture that appreciates effort and diversity in fitness. So the next time you come across someone's fitness progression, consider offering support or keeping silence rather than passing harsh judgments. After all, respect and kindness never go out of style.
