Most manipulators can’t even stand 10 toes on what they do to you 😆 that’s why they try to turn you into the villain so they don’t have to feel the guilt alone.

Feeling constantly misunderstood isn’t normal… We live in a cult-like society that down plays the importance of removing anyone from around you that can’t accept your genuine self.

It’s simply.. an option

People who are outwardly aggressive towards you are safer for your mental health than a sneaky deceptive person. They’ll play with your mind then play victim or even savior as necessary

You will never feel safe around people who bond by exaggerating a “negative” quality about you. They try to paint a different image of you than what you are

Living life for yourself and in alignment will either trigger anger or inspiration in others but you don’t get to choose what or who feels triggered. Keep living your life regardless

Please keep talking about jealousy and secret competition. The children in school who would bully other kids out of jealousy are now adults with the same unresolved feelings and a lot more power 😭

And now that I’m older, I still don’t understand why older generations hate the freedom and opportunity of the next generation like.. you want them to be miserable like you so bad 😭

I hate being around male centered women, the energy is so draining and disgusting. No confident woman wants to be around their constant judgement and projected shame

As a woman, I will never feel bad for not performing being the nice girl…. “If the ocean was sweet, people would have it filled in their bottles. It’s freedom is in the saltiness”

I no longer use perfection as evidence of my worth. You know you’ve reached healthy self esteem as a woman when you aren’t in a rush to fix every flaw about yourself

Just because someone is vocal about their insecurities or feelings of inferiority doesn’t mean they’re harmless. They’re just letting you know why they’ll eventually cross you 😭

At this point I’ve accepted being the designated observant/active listener friend 😂 The more people there are in a social group, the flatter my expression is unintentionally

Having a commanding feminine energy or not being bubbly ≠ mean girl.. I’m convinced most women have never actually experienced a mean girl 😭.

Many dysfunctional people/families stay far away from alcohol. When silence and control is priority, drinking would actually make it harder to keep certain secrets or feelings hidden

Working a job and having kids doesn’t automatically mean you will be personally fulfilled. The more people realize how unhappy and purposeless they actually feel, the more they will control and hurt people who are genuinely happy

Once you understand the history behind beauty standards and that preferences are emotional based, you stop centering wanting to be everyone’s preference. When you center YOUR beauty you attract the right people

Older narcissistic women will target and belittle your competence and ability to govern over yourself to make you look unstable. This way they can frame their control as genuinely caring about you

Being introverted and observant triggers messy people 😂 the less you tell others the more those people enjoy creating issues & storylines about you and your life. You’re like a blank canvas

“Haters” are the least of your worries. It’s the people who put you on a pedestal and scream your name when they’re comfortable.. and try to slander you when they’re not