Something’s Gotta Change…
I get monthly journal prompts from Pinterest and journal that days prompt if I have nothing else I want to write about.
Today is July 12th, today’s hit me a little harder than I expected: “What accomplishments have you made in the first half of the year and how do they make you feel?”
I started thinking through the year so far and not many accomplishments came to mind. My biggest was getting engaged but that wasn’t entirely up to me to get “accomplish”. This started to bring me down a little, I started to think that I’m failing and not enjoying my life or living it to the best of my ability. I really started to feel bad about myself and wanted to find where I wrote down New Year’s resolutions just to get even more upset with myself. Checked my notes app, my notebooks and my calendar but I didn’t write anything down.
I DIDNT WRITE ANYTHING DOWN.
The entire reason why I haven’t accomplished anything is because I had nothing to accomplish. I made no goals or dreams so I didn’t have to work hard to complete them. No wonder I felt like I’ve done nothing. I literally have.
I know resolutions can be a hard thing, usually when they’re done for the new year they never get completed but that’s normal. Most of the time they just made their starting goal too big. But as much as one may think they’re silly, cringy, or stupid I’m going to make some for the rest of the year.
It’s never too late to start as long as you actually do.
End Of Year Goals:
1. Lesson screen time
2. Skincare routine that works for my face/skin
3. A nighttime routine that I love
4. More communication with loved ones
5. Further along in wedding planning
When you make goals start with small ones that are easily attainable that get you closer to your “big” goal. Then continue making goals as you complete them and then before you know it that unimaginable accomplishment is completed and you feel amazing about you, life, a living in general.
With anything, always take things slow and appreciate your life now. Love yourself and love your life! 💗
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Feeling stuck or unaccomplished can be the catalyst for positive change in your life. It's essential to recognize that everyone experiences ups and downs, and it's never too late to set new goals or refresh old ones. For many, the halfway point in the year prompts reflection on what has been achieved and what still remains to be done. One of the most impactful strategies is to focus on smaller, specific goals rather than overwhelming yourself with grand resolutions. For instance, instead of aiming to completely transform your lifestyle overnight, consider creating a skincare routine that suits your individual needs, or limiting your screen time for better mental wellness. This method not only makes the objectives more attainable but also fosters a sense of accomplishment as you cross them off your list. Additionally, creating regular check-ins with yourself can help maintain focus and motivation throughout the year. Take the time to journal your progress and feelings associated with each goal. This practice not only keeps you accountable but also boosts your self-awareness and emotional resilience. Lastly, remember that it's essential to celebrate even the smallest victories. Gratitude for the present can help maintain a positive outlook and encourage further goal-setting. Allow yourself to be vulnerable and recognize the beauty in both success and challenges. By doing so, you create a most satisfying journey toward personal growth.
