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If it's okay with you, that's fine.

Even if you say it's hard

i couldn't do anything for her.

It's even more painful.

When you are happy

Because we can be happy together

I'm happy too.

Let me carry half of your pain.

I'll drop you off somewhere.

I want you to have half of your happiness.

I'll double it somewhere.

What only I can do

I want to keep looking for things that I can do.

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... Read moreこの詩は、誰かの気持ちに寄り添うことの大切さを優しく教えてくれます。私も実際に大切な人が辛い時に、なかなか何もできずもどかしさを感じた経験があります。しかし、彼らの喜びを一緒に喜び、悲しみを少しでも分かち合うことが、思った以上に心の支えになると気づきました。 苦しい時にただそばにいること、相手の痛みを全部引き受けるのではなく、半分だけ背負うイメージで支えることで、自分自身も無理なく支え続けられるのです。その分、嬉しい時には倍にして喜び合えると想像すると、共に過ごす時間がもっと豊かになるでしょう。 このような支え合いの考え方は、人間関係を深めるだけでなく、精神的な健康にも良い影響を与えます。パートナーや友人、家族との関係で、ぜひ心掛けてみてください。あなたにしかできない支えかたを探す過程こそが、人生の大きな喜びの一つになるはずです。

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