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大嫌いな自分に愛を送ろう。

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I want to love even if they don't understand me.

You notice someone's tears

Keeping my scars hidden

Every time I laugh, "It's okay.

my chest hurt a little.

i don't want you to understand.

but i wanted you to understand.

Only feelings that cannot be put into words

Swaying in the corner of the night sky

Hey

I wonder what love is

Maybe a blood connection.

I wonder if it's a promise

No matter how many times I get lost

Even so, someone

I didn't want to abandon you.

I'm not a strong person

i was really scared.

Even being hated

Even losing

But

If you notice someone's loneliness

Without reaching out

I couldn't stay

I left it too early for the season

While holding the words

Today I will walk on

Stay clumsy

Stay kind

I want to love you even if you don't understand me

Even if you don't understand, let's still love.

# poem # lyrics

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愛とは何かを考えたとき、血の繋がりや約束では説明しきれない感情が私たちの心に根付いています。私自身も時には周囲から理解されず、孤独を感じることがありますが、それでも誰かを愛し続けたいという気持ちが消えることはありません。誰かの涙に気づく優しさと、自分の傷を隠す弱さ、その両方を抱えながら日々を歩むことが不器用ながらも愛の形だと感じています。時には他人にわかってもらえなくても、その『理解されなくても愛したい』という想いが、人と人との繋がりをより深める大切な力になるのです。また、この文章にある「強い人じゃない」「怖かった」という率直な感情は、多くの人が共感できるポイントだと思います。嫌われることの恐怖や失うことの恐怖は誰にとっても逃れられないものですが、その中で手を差し伸べられるのはまさに人間らしい温かさ。そうした側面を認められることも、自己愛と他者への愛を育む上で重要です。誰かの孤独に気づいても、心を閉ざしてしまうことがありますが、この詩のように敢えて手を伸ばす勇気を持つことが大切です。理屈ではなく、感情の機微に寄り添うことで、人は少しずつ互いを理解し、支え合うことができるのだと感じます。理解されなくても愛する。その想いは、時に私たち自身を救い、前に歩み続ける力となるでしょう。

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