Eating the breakfast I made Oyamakumi 149
I read all of the complete science fiction works for boys and girls in the school library before going on summer vacation.
I had no choice but to go by bicycle to the city library, which was a little far away.
There is a beautiful sister in the library, and if you go near it, it smells good and the movement becomes awkward.
On that day, I couldn't narrow down the books I wanted to read, so I was trying to choose which one I wanted to read by stacking books on a large table.
"It's unfair to occupy so much alone."
A doll-like girl with long hair and white color talked to me while laughing.
I thought that this amount could be narrowed down to one book immediately, so it was very surprising.
"Lend me this."
I tried to ask the library's older sister for help, but she doesn't seem to care at all.
"Is it okay not to reply?"
I sit down and read the book at the top.
I was taken the best book, so I had no choice but to start reading the second best book.
Before I knew it, I was engrossed and the outside of the window became dim.
"That's terrible..."
With a firm expression of anger in her eyes, she tied her mouth in a letter and said so.
I saw him off the back as he slammed the book he was carrying.
After I finished one book, I went to my sister at the counter to borrow another book I had chosen.
"You have to be a little kinder to girls."
I didn't understand what was being said and went home stunned.
That's it for this story.
Every time I went to the library, I kept looking for the girl, but I could not find it until the summer vacation was finally over.
And I started thinking that I should be kind to women.
The world is full of kindness and compassion.
I haven 't met you yet.
「顰蹙を買う」って、漢字が難しくて最初は読めませんでした。読み方は「ひんしゅくをかう」。意味は一言でいうと「周りの人に不快感や反感を持たれてしまうこと」「迷惑そうに思われること」です。怒られるというより、“うわ…それはちょっと”と引かれる感じに近いと思います。 私がこの言葉を思い出したのは、昔図書館で起きた小さな出来事がきっかけです。夢中で本を読んでいたら、話しかけてきた女の子の気持ちに気づけず、結果的に不機嫌にさせてしまいました。あの場面、相手からすると「無視された」「独り占めされた」と感じたかもしれません。まさに“顰蹙を買う”行動だったのだと思います。 使い方は「顰蹙を買う＋行動（言動）」の形が多いです。 例文： ・会議中にスマホばかり見ていて、同僚の顰蹙を買った。 ・順番を守らず割り込んで、周囲の顰蹙を買う。 ・自慢話を何度もしてしまい、友人の顰蹙を買った。 ポイントは、相手が“明確に怒鳴る”というより、眉をひそめるような空気になること。だからこそ、自分では軽い気持ちの言動でも起こりやすい印象です。 似た表現としては「反感を買う」「不興を買う」「失笑を買う」などがあります。ニュアンスの違いは、 ・反感を買う：もっとストレートに敵意・反発を持たれる ・不興を買う：目上の人などの機嫌を損ねる ・失笑を買う：あきれられて笑われる という感じで、場面によって選ぶとしっくりきます。 私の経験から言うと、顰蹙を買いやすいのは「相手の気持ちに気づかない」「場のルールを見落とす」時でした。ほんの一言返す、席を詰める、相手の本も一緒に探してみる…それだけで空気は変わります。優しさって大げさなことじゃなくて、こういう小さな配慮の積み重ねなのかもしれません。
