Getting back to me 🥰🌸
It’s the little things ❤️🩹🤞🏾I shifted my perspective and realized that instead of waiting on someone to love me correctly, I need to love myself correctly, first. I want to be treated a certain way, so I need to first treat myself the way that I want someone else to treat me. This is two fold for me: not only will I keep my expectations & standards high, but I can truly tend to myself and water myself the way that I need and deserve. Yes, I buy myself flowers 🌹 Yes, I buy myself gifts 🎁 Yes, I write myself love notes ✍🏾💕 Yes, I tend to myself emotionally, mentally, and physically. And yes, I spoil myself 🥰🤞🏾💗💕 #selflove❤️ #healingjourney #icanbuymyselfflowers #lovingmefirst
Taking the time to focus on yourself and practice self-love can be a game changer. For me, it began with a simple realization: the love I seek from others should first come from within. This mindset shift sparked a new routine where I started to nurture myself in ways I hadn't before. I found joy in the little rituals, like buying myself flowers or gifts—not as a replacement for someone else's love but as a tangible reminder that I am worthy. Writing love notes to myself became a powerful tool to reinforce positivity and encouragement during tough days. These notes aren’t just words; they are affirmations that help me reconnect with my values and dreams. Beyond the physical acts, tending to myself emotionally and mentally has been crucial. I allocate time for journaling, meditation, and sometimes just sitting quietly to process my feelings. These practices create space for healing and help me maintain high standards not just for others, but for how I treat myself. Physically, I’ve also learned to listen to my body’s needs—whether it’s rest, nourishment, or exercise that feels good rather than punitive. Spoiling myself no longer feels selfish; it's essential for my overall wellness. If you're on a similar journey, start small. Maybe buy yourself a flower, or write a note of kindness to yourself. These acts, though simple, accumulate and can transform the way you view yourself and your relationships. Remember, the first love you need is the one you give to yourself.