You didn’t lose them... read that again
From my own experience, understanding true love is less about losing someone and more about realizing your worth. Many people mistake confusion and intense emotions for love, but true love should feel calm and reassuring. Mixed signals are often a red flag, signaling that being chosen does not always mean being truly valued. It's important to recognize that someone can love you but still not be the right person for you. Consistency in actions and emotions is far more romantic and reliable than momentary bursts of intensity. I've learned that closure doesn’t always come from the other person—it sometimes comes from within yourself. Walking away is an act of self-respect, not failure. By choosing yourself first, you create space for healthier and more fulfilling relationships. If you feel uncertain or find yourself questioning mixed signals, remind yourself that you didn’t lose them—you gained clarity. Love should never feel toxic or draining. Keep learning and growing because it's never too late to understand that choosing yourself is the greatest love you can offer.
