Everyone that’s did me wrong I got them back
“Love keeps no records of wrongs”1 Corinthians 13:5
In relationships you are bound to make mistakes and hurt one another because no one is perfect. You may say something hurtful in a moment of stress or forget an important event. It is the heart posture and character of a person that lets you know if a person has a character flaw and if they’re willing to work on it . That’s when you make a decison on what boundaries you will have and follow through. Now when you have someone stuck on payback it doesn’t matter whether it was intentional or not. They take that moment to show their perfection within a relationship through tearing you down with no intent of forgiveness or clarity of boundaries within a relationship. Your wrong become cash in the bank that they can whip out to excuse their behavior and disrespect. The relationship can become very tit for tat or one person is at the mercy of another proving their inocense for years.
Even God knew the importance of forgiveness in order to love. You can’t have love if someone is reminding you of every little wrong and making you pay everyday. Now this doesn’t take away from you being held accountable. But being held accountable should be something that works towards a goal to eventually improve the relationship and one another individually even if that means breaking up. The behavior should be confronted with a game plan to make change but running around torturing someone will not improve the relationship but further damage it. So no you should not be getting called stupid because you arrived late to his family dinner after being on time for 10 out of 11.
May God restore your heart and may you know sometimes you have to forgive you even when others don’t. We are all ugly inside but we can choose to grow. God knows your heart and you shouldn’t have to prove it everyday.
If you are the person who seem to not be able to let go I pray God gives your heart a release and you pour out and know you no longer have to protect you. We get stuck on revenge when no one was there to protect . So put your army gear down and know Gods got your back and you don’t have to protect you anymore. You are safe loved and forgiven and can let go and forgive. Be at peace knowing Gods got you more than being worried about what they did. Your healing is more important than them. You can love again and God wants you to. So don’t go into the new years with your kill bill list LET GOD be your savior for once and save you. When you’ve never been saved all your know is rage. That’s why God sent his son to show the best form of protecting someone . To die for them.
If you've never accepted Christ as your Savior and feel led to, I invite you now to open your heart to Him. Ask Jesus to come into your life, forgive your sins, and be your Lord and Savior
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