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Where are we near? Our habits are like that person.

We have the instinct to "adapt" and "copy" the environment unconsciously.

• If Near the Positive: We will begin to see opportunities in crisis and have the energy to live.

• If near the gossiper: We will start looking for the disadvantages of others, and the heart will begin to narrow.

• If Near the Aware: We will begin to wonder, want to improve ourselves, and see the wider world.

The surroundings that shape our identity. If we want to be a person, put yourself where there are people like that, because the smell of your society will eventually become your body smell and habits.

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