Automatically translated.View original post

The idea of dressing up and working is good. Work is pleasing.💙ðŸĪðŸĐķðŸ–Ī

7/21 Edited to

... Read moreāđ€āļĄāļ·āđˆāļ­āļžāļđāļ”āļ–āļķāļ‡āļāļēāļĢāđāļ•āđˆāļ‡āļ•āļąāļ§āļ—āļĩāđˆāļ•āļ­āļšāđ‚āļˆāļ—āļĒāđŒāļ—āļąāđ‰āļ‡āđ€āļĢāļ·āđˆāļ­āļ‡āļ—āļģāļ‡āļēāļ™āđāļĨāļ°āļ­āļ­āļāļ‡āļēāļ™ āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāļ„āļ™āļ­āļēāļˆāļĢāļđāđ‰āļŠāļķāļāļ§āđˆāļēāļĒāļēāļāļ—āļĩāđˆāļˆāļ°āļĄāļĩāļŠāđ„āļ•āļĨāđŒāļ—āļĩāđˆāđ€āļŦāļĄāļēāļ°āļŠāļĄāđƒāļ™āļ—āļļāļāđ‚āļ­āļāļēāļŠ āđāļ•āđˆāļ•āļēāļĄāļ›āļĢāļ°āļŠāļšāļāļēāļĢāļ“āđŒāļ‚āļ­āļ‡āļ‰āļąāļ™ āļāļēāļĢāļĄāļĩāļŠāļļāļ”āļ—āļĩāđˆāļ„āļąāļ”āļŠāļĢāļĢāļĄāļēāļ­āļĒāđˆāļēāļ‡āļ”āļĩāđāļĨāļ°āđ€āļ›āļĨāļĩāđˆāļĒāļ™āļŠāđ„āļ•āļĨāđŒāđ€āļžāļĩāļĒāļ‡āđ€āļĨāđ‡āļāļ™āđ‰āļ­āļĒ āđ€āļŠāđˆāļ™ āđ€āļ›āļĨāļĩāđˆāļĒāļ™āđ€āļŠāļ·āđ‰āļ­āļœāđ‰āļēāļŦāļĨāļąāļāļŦāļĢāļ·āļ­āđ€āļžāļīāđˆāļĄāđ€āļ„āļĢāļ·āđˆāļ­āļ‡āļ›āļĢāļ°āļ”āļąāļš āļŠāļēāļĄāļēāļĢāļ–āļŠāđˆāļ§āļĒāđƒāļŦāđ‰āļ„āļļāļ“āļ”āļđāļ”āļĩāđ„āļ”āđ‰āļ—āļąāđ‰āļ‡āļ§āļąāļ™āļ—āļģāļ‡āļēāļ™āđāļĨāļ°āļ‡āļēāļ™āđ€āļĨāļĩāđ‰āļĒāļ‡ āļŠāļļāļ”āļ—āđāļēāļ‡āļēāļ™āļ—āļĩāđˆāđāļ™āļ°āļ™āļģ āđ€āļŠāđˆāļ™ āđ€āļŠāļ·āđ‰āļ­āļ—āļ§āļīāļ•āļāļąāļšāļāļēāļ‡āđ€āļāļ‡āļŦāļĢāļ·āļ­āļāļĢāļ°āđ‚āļ›āļĢāļ‡āļ—āļĢāļ‡āļ•āļĢāļ‡āļ—āļĩāđˆāļ”āļđāļŠāļļāļ āļēāļžāđāļ•āđˆāļĒāļąāļ‡āļ„āļ‡āļŠāđ„āļ•āļĨāđŒāđāļŸāļŠāļąāđˆāļ™āļŦāļāļīāļ‡āļ—āļĩāđˆāđ€āļĢāļĩāļĒāļšāļ‡āđˆāļēāļĒāđāļĨāļ°āđ€āļ›āđ‡āļ™āļ—āļēāļ‡āļāļēāļĢ āļŠāļēāļĄāļēāļĢāļ–āđ€āļžāļīāđˆāļĄāļ„āļ§āļēāļĄāđ€āļāđ‹āļ”āđ‰āļ§āļĒāđ€āļ„āļĢāļ·āđˆāļ­āļ‡āļ›āļĢāļ°āļ”āļąāļšāđ€āļĢāļĩāļĒāļšāļŦāļĢāļđāļŦāļĢāļ·āļ­āļĢāļ­āļ‡āđ€āļ—āđ‰āļēāļŠāđ‰āļ™āļŠāļđāļ‡āļ—āļĩāđˆāļ”āļđāļŠāļļāļ āļēāļž āļŠāđˆāļ§āļ™āļŠāļļāļ”āļ­āļ­āļāļ‡āļēāļ™āđ€āļĨāļ·āļ­āļāđ€āļ›āđ‡āļ™āļŠāļļāļ”āļ—āļĩāđˆāđƒāļŠāđˆāļŠāļšāļēāļĒāđāļ•āđˆāļ”āļđāļ”āļĩāļĄāļĩāļŠāđ„āļ•āļĨāđŒ āđ€āļŠāđˆāļ™ āđ€āļ”āļĢāļŠāļœāđ‰āļēāļ‹āļēāļ•āļīāļ™āļŦāļĢāļ·āļ­āļœāđ‰āļēāļ—āļĩāđˆāļĄāļĩāļ›āļĢāļ°āļāļēāļĒāđ€āļĨāđ‡āļāļ™āđ‰āļ­āļĒ āđ€āļžāļ·āđˆāļ­āđƒāļŦāđ‰āđ„āļ”āđ‰āļĨāļļāļ„āđ‚āļ”āļ”āđ€āļ”āđˆāļ™āļ—āļĩāđˆāļ™āđˆāļēāļˆāļ”āļˆāļģ āļ™āļ­āļāļˆāļēāļāļ™āļĩāđ‰ āļāļēāļĢāđ€āļĨāļ·āļ­āļāļŠāļĩāļ‚āļ­āļ‡āđ€āļŠāļ·āđ‰āļ­āļœāđ‰āļēāļāđ‡āļŠāļģāļ„āļąāļ āđ€āļŠāđˆāļ™ āđ‚āļ—āļ™āļŠāļĩāļ™āđ‰āļģāđ€āļ‡āļīāļ™ āļ‚āļēāļ§ āļ”āļģ āļŦāļĢāļ·āļ­āļŠāļĩāđ‚āļ—āļ™āļ­āđˆāļ­āļ™ āļˆāļ°āļŠāđˆāļ§āļĒāđƒāļŦāđ‰āļĨāļļāļ„āļ”āļđāļ—āļąāļ™āļŠāļĄāļąāļĒāđāļĨāļ°āđ€āļ‚āđ‰āļēāļāļąāļšāļ—āļļāļāļŠāļ–āļēāļ™āļāļēāļĢāļ“āđŒāđ„āļ”āđ‰āļ”āļĩ āļāļēāļĢāļˆāļąāļ”āļāļēāļĢāļāļąāļšāļĨāļļāļ„āļ—āļąāđ‰āļ‡āļŠāļĩāđˆāđāļšāļšāļ™āļĩāđ‰āļŠāđˆāļ§āļĒāđƒāļŦāđ‰āļ„āļļāļ“āđ„āļĄāđˆāļ•āđ‰āļ­āļ‡āļāļąāļ‡āļ§āļĨāļ§āđˆāļēāļˆāļ°āđƒāļŠāđˆāļŠāļļāļ”āļœāļīāļ”āđ‚āļ­āļāļēāļŠ āđāļĨāļ°āļĒāļąāļ‡āļŠāđˆāļ§āļĒāđ€āļŠāļĢāļīāļĄāļšāļļāļ„āļĨāļīāļāđƒāļŦāđ‰āđ‚āļ”āļ”āđ€āļ”āđˆāļ™āđƒāļ™āļ—āļļāļāļ§āļąāļ™ āļŠāļļāļ”āļ—āđ‰āļēāļĒ āļ­āļĒāđˆāļēāļĨāļ·āļĄāļ§āđˆāļēāļāļēāļĢāđāļ•āđˆāļ‡āļ•āļąāļ§āļ—āļĩāđˆāļ”āļĩāļ„āļ·āļ­āļ•āđ‰āļ­āļ‡āļŠāļšāļēāļĒāđāļĨāļ°āļĄāļąāđˆāļ™āđƒāļˆ āđ€āļĄāļ·āđˆāļ­āļĨāļ­āļ‡āļŠāļĨāļąāļšāļŠāļļāļ”āļ•āļēāļĄāļ­āļēāļĢāļĄāļ“āđŒāđāļĨāļ°āđ‚āļ­āļāļēāļŠāļ•āđˆāļēāļ‡āđ† āđ€āļĢāļēāļˆāļ°āđ„āļ”āđ‰āļ„āļ§āļēāļĄāļĢāļđāđ‰āļŠāļķāļāļ—āļĩāđˆāļ”āļĩāđāļĨāļ°āļ”āļđāļ”āļĩāļžāļĢāđ‰āļ­āļĄāļāļąāļ™āļ—āļļāļāļ„āļĢāļąāđ‰āļ‡āļ—āļĩāđˆāļ­āļ­āļāļˆāļēāļāļšāđ‰āļēāļ™

Related posts

A study setup featuring a pink backpack, water bottle, e-reader, and a laptop with a cup of tea. The image is overlaid with the text 'Romanticize Studying How to Effectively Study to Up Your GPA'.
A pink backpack, a 'Champagne Toast' scented candle, white over-ear headphones, and an iced coffee drink, set against a background of pink tulips, illustrating an aesthetic study space.
White over-ear headphones are depicted alongside several black musical notes, symbolizing the creation of a study playlist for focus and relaxation.
Elevate Your Student Experience and Boost Your GPA
Studying often feels like a necessary evil—something you have to do rather than something you want to do. But what if you could transform your study sessions into moments of relaxation, productivity, and even joy? Romanticizing studying can help you not only raise your GPA but also make the ent
Chalie_Baker

Chalie_Baker

1812 likes

The Just 3 Rule for Mental Health That Sticks 💭âĪïļðŸ§ âœĻ
Let me be sooo real with youâ€Ķ Getting fit is hard. Staying consistent? Way harder. It’s not about having the “perfect” body or that one magical workout. It’s about your brain. Your mood. Your mindset. Because honestly? If your mental health is trash, your discipline will be too. And that’s exactly
Chalie_Baker

Chalie_Baker

642 likes

Aesthetically pleasing study tips ðŸĐ·ðŸ“š
#study #studymotivation #studyessentials #studytok #studytips
Mystudytips7

Mystudytips7

174 likes

Work From Home Set Up
working from home is my favorite and I love sharing decor and inspo ideas! I’m also obsessed with mechanical keyboards, iykyk #wfhoffice #officeaesthetic #officedecor #wfhdesksetup #officetour United States ⭐ïļ Rating: 10/10 for comfy, cozy, and functional
JC | Lifestyle | WFH | Mama

JC | Lifestyle | WFH | Mama

2514 likes

Dinner Ideas for Working Women
Dinner is an amazing idea whether you make beef stew in the oven or stop by the chicken spot or make some delicious egg ramen! I have been consistently making dinner for myself for about 3 years and it is a time in my day that I romanticize a lot. I don put pressure on myself for my dinners to b
Isha | Fashion Inspo

Isha | Fashion Inspo

694 likes

A white plate features a steak and shrimp dish with creamy garlic sauce, accompanied by fluffy mashed potatoes and a bowl of creamed spinach. The steak is topped with grilled shrimp and a rich, herb-flecked sauce, creating an indulgent meal.
ðŸ“ļâœĻ2026 DINNER IDEAâœĻðŸ“ļ
Steak & Shrimp with Creamy Garlic Sauce ðŸĪðŸ”Ĩ This easy family dinner is rich, indulgent, and straight-up best comfort food when you want steakhouse vibes without leaving home. #dinnersuccess #dinnertimeideas #dinners served. #dinnermadeeasy #Lemon8Diary 📝 Ingredients : For the
Minister Jelissa Cogdell

Minister Jelissa Cogdell

1288 likes

A list titled "WHAT I'M NOT APOLOGIZIN' FOR ANYMORE" outlines 8 points related to setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care. These include not texting back immediately, valuing peace over people, saying 'no' without explanation, leaving messages on read, healing at one's own pace, not always being the strong friend, prioritizing family, and not explaining oneself to distant relatives.
No more "people pleasing " âœĻ
You weren’t created to shrink for others’ comfort. When you stop people-pleasing, you start self-honoring. That’s when your life shifts from surviving to thriving. 1. Your worth isn’t tied to others’ approval. â€Ē You don’t have to earn love or acceptance by constantly giving or being
Milli | The Mompreneur

Milli | The Mompreneur

8226 likes

A tablet displays a Notion page titled 'Content Planner,' featuring sections for Lemon8 programs, social media content, and weekly planning, illustrating how to make Notion pages aesthetically pleasing.
A tablet shows the Notion interface with the 'Templates' section highlighted, displaying various pre-built templates for student planners, dashboards, and other organizational tools.
A tablet displays a Notion page integrated with Getkairo.com widgets, showcasing interactive elements like time, habit, and goal trackers, including a 'Smoke Free' counter and 'Money Saved' metrics.
âœĻMake Your Notion Page Look Aesthetic Pleasing🌟
Whether you're a Notion newbie or a seasoned planner, making your workspace visually appealing can inspire productivity AND creativity. Here’s a quick guide to level up your Notion game with the best resources I’ve found! 👇 📋 Templates Kickstart your Notion journey with ready-to-use templat
ðŸŒļGenâœĻð–Ĩ” â€ē âЇâЇ:âЇâЇ ⋆â˜ū⋆⁹₊ ✧

ðŸŒļGenâœĻð–Ĩ” â€ē âЇâЇ:âЇâЇ ⋆â˜ū⋆⁹₊ ✧

125 likes

how to stop people pleasing!!!
we all know the struggle 😅 you don’t feel like you can say no to plans. someone asks about details of your life you don’t want to share, but you feel obligated. your manager asks you to work more hours, and you automatically say yes. breaking the people pleasing cycle is uncomfortable as hell. i
carley â—ĄĖˆ

carley â—ĄĖˆ

1354 likes

Simple 2-Pan Dinner + Toddler Plate Idea ðŸ‘ĐðŸ―â€ðŸģâœĻ(Real food. Real life. No stress.)
This is what “feeding your family without losing your mind” actually looks like. No fancy ingredients. No complicated steps. Just real food that works. I made everything on 2 pans and let the oven do the work. 🍗 Ingredients: Pan 1 (Protein): Chicken breast (cubed) Onion Olive oil
Taiana ðŸģ

Taiana ðŸģ

15 likes

Level up your work from home setupðŸĐ·
Items: PrimeConnect Bluetooth Typewriter Keyboard - $10 Pink Ergonomic Mouse Pad - $4 Room2Room Disco Groovy Lamp - $12 Pink Ribbed Glass Tumbler - $5 Total - $32 after tax! I just got my first big girl job and I wanted to level up my at home desk setup! I feel like having these cute littl
AdaðŸĶ‹

AdaðŸĶ‹

518 likes

A white bowl holds a vibrant salad made with green lettuce, red cabbage, white cabbage, and shredded carrots, served with a piece of crusty bread on a textured blue-grey surface.
How I cut back on using salad dressing on my salad
This is a tip that has been working for me. I think it's has really helped me cut back. This is for a salad without croutons or anything crispy hard-ish that can get soggy. Let's say I usually use 2 tablespoons (just an example). 1. I put in 1 1/2 instead of the normal 2 tablespoon
Hi!! I'm Amy

Hi!! I'm Amy

16 likes

Dressing up is my favorite part of working âœĻ
Sunshine Nichole

Sunshine Nichole

0 likes

People-Pleasing 😎
Some people learned survival by staying small, agreeable, helpful, and “easy,” but constantly putting everyone else first comes at a cost. People-pleasing isn’t just being “nice.” It’s often fear of rejection, conflict, abandonment, or disappointing others. Healing starts when you realize:
Jessica Irene

Jessica Irene

119 likes

A handwritten note on lined paper defines "Kindness" as acting with care, compassion, and respect towards others and yourself, emphasizing it comes from love, includes oneself, and expects nothing in return. It contrasts kindness with "People-pleasing," which involves allowing harm or ignoring one's needs. The note lists examples of kindness towards others and self, including setting boundaries.
ðŸŒļ Kindness is not people-pleasingðŸŒļ
ðŸŒļ Kindness is not people-pleasing it’s love in action. ðŸŒļ Being kind means showing care, compassion, and respect to others and yourself. ✅ Comes from love, not guilt. ✅ Includes you in the equation. ✅ Doesn’t expect anything in return. 💛 Kindness = supporting others with grace and small ges
Jessica Irene

Jessica Irene

91 likes

Choosing Me Over Pleasing Others 👑
Showing up for yourself is the ultimate form of self-love ðŸŒļ💊 Whether it’s setting boundaries, creating a morning routine, or celebrating small wins, every step counts. Start prioritizing YOU today! Which of these will you focus on first? Let me know👇 Love Ya 💋 - #SelfLoveJourney #LevelUpYourLi
MAIIA ⭐ïļ

MAIIA ⭐ïļ

472 likes

Witchcraft doesn’t always look how you’d expect
We have a pre existing idea that witchcraft always looks like how you see it on Instagram. Very aesthetic, candles everywhere, herbs, crystals, and so onâ€Ķ now don’t get me wrongâ€Ķ I love traditional witchcraft as much as the next personâ€Ķ However, I’m on a mission to update how we SEE and DO witch
TheTechnoWitch

TheTechnoWitch

163 likes

Two felted lip product tubes, one pink and one red, are nestled in a clear bowl of red felted raspberries. The tubes feature text indicating them as peptide lip tints. The overall presentation is soft and aesthetically pleasing.
A heart-shaped container holds numerous felted lip product replicas in various shades of pink and cream. Some items are shaped like lip gloss tubes, others like balms, with text visible on some. The collection has a soft, cozy appearance.
Six felted lip product replicas are arranged in a row on a white surface. They come in pastel pink, light blue, and cream colors, with some featuring text and logos. The items are crafted from soft, fuzzy material.
Aesthetically pleasing lip gloss
#glosses #lipbalm #Aesthetic #ILoveIt #Lemon8Diary
Will always be that girl

Will always be that girl

991 likes

A hand-drawn illustration on notebook paper titled 'PEOPLE-PLEASING Signs & effects'. It shows a sad person surrounded by symptoms: difficulty saying no, avoiding conflict, over-apologizing, bottling feelings, fear of rejection, low self-esteem, taking on too much, guilt for boundaries, resentment, and burnout.
People-Pleasing
People-pleasing isn’t kindness. It’s a fear response. ðŸĪ Many of us learned early that love felt conditional & that staying safe meant staying agreeable. So we: ðŸ–ĪStruggle to say no ðŸ–ĪAvoid conflict ðŸ–ĪOver-apologize ðŸ–ĪTake on too much ðŸ–ĪFeel guilty for having boun
Jessica Irene

Jessica Irene

575 likes

Read This If You’re Ready to Stop People-Pleasing
Let’s be real—people-pleasing is exhausting. Saying yes when you mean no, overextending yourself, and constantly seeking approval? It’s a fast track to burnout. If you’re ready to break free and start living for you, here’s what you need to know: âœĻ Your Needs Matter Too – You’ve spent so much ti
SheilaâœĻ

SheilaâœĻ

14 likes

A young woman looks at her laptop, with text overlay "3 ways I stay productive while working remotely." Pink flower graphics are on the image, introducing tips for remote work focus.
A dedicated workspace featuring a record player, a framed picture, and a window, illustrating the importance of a distraction-free environment for productivity.
A bouquet of pink and white flowers in a paper bag, with text overlay "Using time management methods (My favourite is the Pomodoro method. It really works!)." A car is visible in the background.
How I stay focused working from home
Working from home has its benefits, but it’s hard to stay focused sometimes when my bed is just â€Ķ rightâ€Ķ there! Sticking to the right productivity practices while working from home is essential to meet deadlines and maintain a healthy work-life balance. I find that having a structured routine a
Jane ðŸĶ§

Jane ðŸĶ§

17 likes

The image features a mountain landscape at sunset with text overlay: "Unlearning Perfectionism â€Ē People Pleasing â€Ē Hyper-Independence." It introduces the topic of unlearning these survival strategies.
Against a mountain sunset, the image defines "Perfectionism" as believing worth comes from flawlessness, leading to self-criticism. Healing involves prioritizing progress and recognizing inherent worth.
Set against a mountain sunset, the image describes "People Pleasing" as believing happiness for others earns love, leading to abandoning truth. Healing emphasizes boundaries and the sacredness of saying "no."
Unlearning Perfectionism, People Pleasing...
Perfectionism, people pleasing, and hyper-independence aren’t personality traits — they’re survival strategies. 🌑 You learned them to stay safe, loved, or accepted. But what once protected you now keeps you from deeper love and freedom. The work isn’t to shame yourself — it’s to unlearn, sof
The Divine Academy

The Divine Academy

12 likes

Here's Why Your People Pleasing...
What if I told you that your people-pleasing tendencies might not be about themâ€Ķ but about you? About an inner child who learned to avoid conflict by being agreeable, to earn love by always giving, and to feel safe by staying quiet. But you’re not that child anymore. You’re here now, ready t
Roll Pretty

Roll Pretty

9 likes

“For Anyone Who’s Done Pleasing Everyone.”
"Let them judge. Let them walk away. Let them misunderstand you. Protect your peace and let them be. You don’t need to explain your growth to anyone." #LetThem #ProtectYourPeace #HealingJourney #MindsetMatters #EmotionalGrowth
nextreadwithjade

nextreadwithjade

8 likes

i miss dressing cute for work
#workingretail #workoutfit #fyp #ootd #outfitinspo
em

em

14 likes

A serene outdoor spa setting with a draped canopy bed, a chandelier, and a view of a lush garden, featuring a pillow adorned with a red flower.
A dimly lit, modern spa room featuring a massage bed with a dark blue cover and a rolled towel, set against dark tiled walls, with a sliding door revealing another area.
A tranquil spa room bathed in soft purple light, featuring sheer white curtains, some with fairy lights, a relaxation bed, and multiple candles creating a serene ambiance.
Esthetically pleasing Spa room’s
New to Lemon8! Something I loveïžš Meditation and Zen
Ms.parker816

Ms.parker816

31 likes

5 most aesthetically pleasing NYC restaurants
5 NYC spots actually worth the hype with good food Tokyo Record Bar $$$ come for the prefix menu where you get to choose your own playlist for the meal and stay for the ambiance! the food here is incredible and it's so fun to choose your tunes along with the rest of diners. the menu consi
jadeglam

jadeglam

90 likes

God Is Still Working in Us ðŸĪðŸŒš
Hebrews 13:20–21 feels like such a comforting reminder that God is not finished with us yet. “Make you perfect in every good work to do his will, working in you that which is wellpleasing in his sightâ€Ķ” (KJV) I think sometimes we can become discouraged when growth feels slow or when we’re pai
Jonesie's Journey

Jonesie's Journey

14 likes

The Dangers of People Pleasing
Embrace your worthiness and break free from the cycle of people pleasing. Remember, your value comes from within, not from seeking validation from others.
Ready To Bloome ðŸŒļ

Ready To Bloome ðŸŒļ

28 likes

How to Stop People Pleasing ✋ðŸŧ
I feel like I've been a people pleaser my whole life. It's something that I'm still actively working on improving, and I have to keep reminding myself that saying no now can lead to more meaningful and healthy relationships in the future. Here are some practical tips to help you stop
mindofieva

mindofieva

76 likes

Aesthetically pleasing
This just makes my heart smile #claws #grillz #jewelry #jade #whimsical
Shaka💖

Shaka💖

1968 likes

People-pleasing in adulthood ðŸŒļ🍋ðŸŦķ🏞
I don’t think people (therapists included) appreciate how much deeper people-pleasing goes than just simply saying no more often. People pleasing is another nervous system response that is celebrated by others because it benefits them and appears to be something “good” or “nice.” If we want to
Kaylan | FL psychotherapist

Kaylan | FL psychotherapist

76 likes

People pleasing was draining me
i stopped people pleasing in my late 30s and here's what it actually cost me it cost me some relationships. not in a fight, they just faded when i stopped overgiving. it cost me the "she's so sweet" identity i'd worn since my 20s. it cost me the anxiety of replaying every tex
TheUnveiledTherapist

TheUnveiledTherapist

6 likes

See more