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... Read moreIn my experience with Coffee Meets Bagel (CMB), one of the best parts has been feeling empowered to cut off access to anyone who doesn’t add positivity to my life. Before CMB, I often hesitated to completely leave or block people, afraid of awkwardness or confrontation. But CMB made me value my peace of mind more. The platform’s community and dating approach encouraged me to stop giving weirdos or energy drainers any access. Using the block button became satisfying rather than stressful — like reclaiming my personal space. I’ve learned that it’s okay to prioritize mental well-being and that cutting off toxic connections is a healthy choice. This mindset shift has even influenced how I interact outside the app. I find myself more confident in unfollowing or distancing from people who don’t match my values or bring negativity. It’s liberating to take control over who can affect my energy. If you’re hesitant about setting digital boundaries, I’d recommend trying it on CMB. It’s made my dating journey more enjoyable and authentic, helping me attract connections that truly matter. Remember, your time and mental peace are priceless — don't be afraid to use those block and leave options when needed.

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