My Sterilization Experience

So yesterday (03/20/2025) I had my Laparoscopic Bilateral Salpingectomy surgery. What is a LBS? It’s a medical term for a non-invasive outpatient procedure to remove your fallopian tubes.

I’ve wanted this surgery since I was 19 and was never able to get it because various doctors told me I was too young, or I would change my mind or what if my future husband wanted kids. To say I hated having my decision questioned or that it was insinuated that my body isn’t truly mine because a hypothetical man would want to use my body to birth children I don’t even want, would be an understatement.

Now here I am, 34 years old and still don’t want children. I have never changed my mind, hell I’ve never been pregnant because I’ve always paid attention to my body and I’ve been a stickler for contraception. I’m talking using multiple forms at once. I’ve had an IUD since 2015, condoms are use and then I would use spermicide. NOTHING was getting past my defenses!

However, since Roe v Wade was overturned and I live in Texas, It really lit a fire under me to get this done ASAP. Although I never needed an abortion, it was nice having peace of mind that the option was there IF I needed it. At this time, that is no longer the case.

The surgery went extremely well and I’m genuinely shocked that I have no pain whatsoever 24 hours later. The staff at the surgery center were so professional and caring, it actually makes me sad that I won’t see them again because I don’t need any more surgery. I genuinely had an amazing experience and I have immense respect for everyone there.

I would say if you’re truly sure you don’t want children (or anymore if you already have them) I highly recommend this procedure. My insurance covered it at 100% so I’m not sure what the usual cost would be but if you have insurance, definitely ask about it.

#childfree #childfreebychoice #abortionishealthcare #roevswade #sterilized

2025/3/21 Edited to

... Read moreGetting ready for my bisalp was a journey in itself, extending beyond just the emotional preparation. My doctor provided clear pre-surgery instructions, including what medications to avoid, which I followed diligently. I also took time to prepare my home for recovery, stocking up on easy-to-prepare meals, arranging comfy clothes (like my favorite loose zip-up hoodie and soft black pants), and ensuring everything I'd need post-op was within easy reach. The day of the surgery, arriving at the center, I remember feeling a profound mix of nerves and excitement. The staff were incredibly professional and kind, getting me settled onto a hospital gurney and explaining each step as an IV drip was gently placed in my arm. Their care made me feel truly supported throughout the process. For those wondering "what is sterilization surgery" or the specifics of a "laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy," often called a "bisalp" or "double salpingectomy," it's a procedure where both fallopian tubes are completely removed. This differs from a traditional "tubal ligation," where the tubes are merely tied or cut. For me, the complete removal offered a greater sense of peace and permanence. The surgery is done laparoscopically, meaning several small incisions are made. I had three tiny ones: one discreetly placed inside my belly button, and two smaller ones lower on my abdomen. The thought of "salpingectomy scars" or "bilateral salpingectomy incisions" was initially a concern, but honestly, they are incredibly small. My experience with them has been fantastic; they're barely noticeable just weeks later, a testament to the skill of the surgical team. My "laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy recovery" was surprisingly smooth, as I mentioned in my original post. While I had no pain from the incisions, the most notable sensation immediately after was the "gas pain" from the carbon dioxide used to inflate the abdomen during surgery. This can sometimes manifest as shoulder pain, which I did experience briefly. Walking gently around the house was my best friend in helping this dissipate. During the first week of recovery, I diligently avoided heavy lifting and strenuous activity, focusing on gentle movement and staying hydrated. Caring for the small incisions was straightforward: keeping them clean and dry. I kept a close eye on them, but thankfully, there were no issues. Seeing how quickly my "bisalp scars" began to fade was incredibly reassuring, especially when contrasting them with images I'd seen of "before and after healed tubal ligation scars" – my bisalp scars are truly minimal and discreet. If you're considering this life-changing decision, exploring "what is sterilization surgery" and its deeply personal impact, I want to emphasize the immense peace of mind it has brought me. The worries about unplanned pregnancies, especially given the current climate in places like Texas, are completely gone. I also feel a renewed sense of bodily autonomy and control over my own future. For anyone researching "bisalp scars" or recovery timelines, I can share that my healing process was swift, and the aesthetic impact was minimal. My advice? Trust your instincts, conduct thorough research, and most importantly, advocate fiercely for your own choices and body. This surgery has truly been one of the best decisions I've made for my well-being and future.

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who was your doctor who removed your fallopian tubes and what insurance did you have and was there any gas pains afterwards I want my fallopian tubes completely removed and as soon as I get the money I'll be getting them wholly removed

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