my poor TBR
Do I spend hours carefully curating my TBR? Yes.
Do I pick books from it? 🤷🏻♀️
Having a carefully curated TBR (To Be Read) list often leads to an interesting dilemma: spending hours selecting books but rarely getting around to reading them. Many book lovers experience this cycle, which can lead to a sense of overwhelm and guilt over unread books. The phrase "My TBR when I choose something I saw 8 minutes ago" perfectly captures the impulse to add new titles even as others remain untouched. To break this cycle, it helps to establish clear criteria for adding books to your TBR. Prioritize books that genuinely spark your interest or align with your current mood rather than collecting titles out of obligation or fleeting excitement. Regularly revisiting and trimming your list can keep it manageable and prevent it from becoming a source of anxiety. Another useful strategy is to set realistic reading goals and schedules. Instead of focusing solely on accumulating books, commit to reading a set number each month or week. This creates a manageable pace and a sense of accomplishment as you progress. Furthermore, consider diversifying your reading methods, such as audiobooks or eBooks, which can fit more easily into busy or on-the-go lifestyles. Engaging with book communities, like those on Lemon8 or other platforms, provides motivation and inspiration for choosing and completing titles on your list. Remember, the goal of a TBR is to enhance your reading experience, not to overwhelm you. Your list should reflect your tastes and reading desires, offering a personalized and flexible roadmap to literary enjoyment.
