EP12: Call Me Petty, I'm Uncomfortable w it so?

Context: She discovered her boyfriend had an unusually intimate, boundary-crossing relationship with his sister. Here goes:

I had an ex-boyfriend who had a younger sister who was one year younger than him. And the things they did… I don’t know if it’s that I just couldn’t accept it, or if it was actually something that wasn’t quite normal.

At first, I had no idea about this. All he told me was that he had a younger sister, one year younger, and he often mentioned their childhood, how they didn’t get along very well. When he mentioned about it, I thought, "Okay, this is normal. Sibling stuff."

But the first time I felt something was off was on Valentine's Day. He came to pick me up for dinner, he handed me a bouquet of flowers. Which I was really happy for and then I noticed that there was another bouquet in the back seat, identical to the one I was holding. I asked him, "Why is there another one?" He told me, "Oh, that's for my sister."

At that point, I didn’t think much of it. It’s not weird to get your sister flowers, right? So we went to dinner.

But during the meal, it felt like he wanted to finish eating quickly and go home. I asked him, "Are you in a hurry?" And he said, "No, I’m not."

But by the time we finished dinner, he had no plans to go anywhere else, he just dropped me home. IT WAS ONLY 7+PM ON A VDAY… 🤡 (we met for early dinner about 5:30pm)

Later that evening, he updated his IGS. I thought he posted our pictures.. another clown moment.

One of it was him and his sister sitting in the car, hands intertwined.

But the one that really caught my attention, I almost couldn’t believe my eyes. His sister was taking a selfie, and in the background, my ex was kissing her cheek.

When I saw that, I completely lost it. So he rushed me home just so he could go out and celebrate Valentine's Day with his sister? That’s fine if he wants to, but why the hand-holding and kissing? They’re not kids; he’s 25, and she’s 24, the same age as me.

So I confronted him. And he said, "You’re jealous of my sister? She's my sister!" And he said I was the one with the problem, that my mind wasn’t normal, that I was thinking dirty thoughts.

After hearing that, I got so angry, I broke up with him right then and there. But then… I started thinking, "Maybe.. MAYBE I misunderstood." And just as I was thinking that, he came back, asking to get back together.

I clearly wasn’t thinking straight cos I agreed without really thinking.

We ended up fighting again with the same issue. I brought up breaking up again, and this time, he refused, but I made it clear that I needed space.

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