ANYONE THAT DESERVES YOU WILL KNOW HOW TO MAINTAIN YOU

From my personal experience, understanding that someone truly deserving of you will maintain and respect you can be a major eye-opener in relationships. Often, we think that if someone makes mistakes or fails to show care, it means we aren’t valuable. But the truth is quite the opposite. If a person feels worthy of you and values your presence, they will naturally invest effort in maintaining the relationship. I remember in a past relationship, I questioned why things kept falling apart despite my best efforts. Reflecting on it, I realized my partner didn’t know how to maintain the relationship because they didn’t value it as much as I did. It’s like driving a car: if you treat a Ferrari like a Hooptie Subaru, the Ferrari won’t last—not because it’s not a Ferrari, but because it wasn’t properly maintained. The key takeaway is to shift perspective from self-blame to understanding mutual responsibility. When you’re wondering why someone “fumbled” you or failed to keep the relationship steady, remember that maintaining a connection requires both parties recognizing their worth in it. If they can’t maintain you, it’s not a reflection of your worth but theirs. This outlook encourages healthier relationships and self-respect. It helps you not settle for less than you deserve and find those who truly know how to maintain and appreciate what you bring to the table. True deserving partners don’t just value what you offer momentarily—they actively maintain the bond over time.