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Defining the love of someone who is old enough to understand life.

Defining the love of someone old enough to understand life. 💭❤️

Being in love many times

And multiple breakups.

Not uncommon.

It's not embarrassing.

And it's not evidence that you or he are bad.

It is a simple human learning process.

That is using the heart trial and error.

Like updating the life version

Some love is the experimental version.

Some relationships are bugs to solve.

And some... just don't fit into our system. 😌

A little psychological angle (but not stressed)

In love psychology, there is a concept called

Emotional Development (E-Mo-chan-nal d-we-lop-men)

The direct translation is "emotional development."

We Are Not Born Humans With True Love Guide, pages 1-100

We must learn through practical experience.

Through love.

Through disappointment.

Through regret

And through getting up and living.

So...

Multiple quits

Doesn't mean you failed.

But it means

You feel brave, you love and you grow up.

(If you don't dare, that's more scary.)

Love that ends doesn't mean it's worthless.

Some love is not made to "live forever."

But was created for

• Teach us to know ourselves

• Teach us how much we can accept

• And teach us what we deserve.

Break up. Who's bad?

Break up. ❣ Love fails.

Break up = one lesson in life

Like some movies

Finished watching and crying

But I can tell you

"It's a good movie."

A little bit of pearl like people have passed the world. 😂

Love many times, not flirting

Just our hearts have passed a lot of field tests.

Some came through to teach us to be patient.

Some people came through to teach us enough.

And some people came through to teach us to say the word

"That's enough. Thank you." Gracefully. 😌

In summary, people understand life.

If one day someone looks at you and says,

"Why doesn't love stretch?"

You can answer that.

"Not love, not stretching.

But I'm not forced to stay in a relationship.

That the heart must bend. "

And that's...

Is the love of a person who loves himself. 💖

# Defining love

# Love many times, not a bad person

# Love is learning

# Old enough to understand the heart

# Love is not forced

# Love lesson

# Adult relationships

# Always love yourself first

2025/12/26 Edited to

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