i am embarassingly obsessed, okay?

have you ever had one of those books where once you finished it … you immediately picked it back up to start again?

that was my experience with this is how you lose the time war by amal el-mohtar and max gladstone.

some people call this book confusing, but i honestly think the plot is pretty well laid-out. it’s just the lyrical, over-the-top, romantic, VERY heightened language that throws readers for a loop. and that’s my favorite part.

it’s ridiculously romantic and you have to lean into the flow and devour every word.

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2024/6/5 Edited to

... Read moreWhen I first picked up 'This is How You Lose the Time War,' I was intrigued by the concept, but I had no idea how deeply it would resonate with me. It’s an epistolary love story disguised within a thrilling sci-fi narrative. You follow two rival agents, Red and Blue, from opposing factions in a vast, complex time war. Their mission is to alter history to secure victory for their respective sides, but they start leaving secret letters for each other within the timelines. These notes evolve from taunts into something much deeper – a profound connection that transcends the war itself. Many people ask about the writing style, and yes, it’s incredibly unique. As the original review mentioned, it's famous for its lyrical writing. Amal El-Mohtar and Max Gladstone, the brilliant authors, truly crafted something special. What makes it even more fascinating is that it was co-written, with each author penning one of the agents’ perspectives. This gives their voices distinct personalities that are a joy to discover. This heightened, poetic language is what drew me in, even if some readers find it a bit confusing initially. I personally recommend just letting the words wash over you and trusting the narrative to reveal itself. If you're wondering about the genre, it’s a beautiful blend of sci-fi and romance. It's not your typical space opera, nor is it a conventional romance novel. The science fiction elements provide an incredible backdrop for a love story that feels epic and impossible. Speaking of romance, many also ask about the spice level. For me, this book isn't 'spicy' in the traditional sense of explicit scenes. Instead, its romance is intensely emotional, intellectual, and deeply moving. It made me truly believe in romance again, focusing on connection, yearning, and vulnerability rather than physical intimacy. It’s a love story that gets right into your soul. One of the things I love about 'This is How You Lose the Time War' is its relatively short length. It’s more of a novella, making it a quick and impactful read, which is probably why I felt compelled to immediately pick it back up after finishing. It’s compact, dense with meaning, and every word feels carefully chosen. This brevity also makes it perfect for re-reading, as you pick up new nuances and hidden meanings with each pass. The cover artwork for 'This is How You Lose the Time War' is also quite striking and often a point of discussion. The imagery, often featuring birds or abstract elements, perfectly encapsulates the mysterious and poetic nature of the story within. It's an artwork that truly reflects the unique world Amal El-Mohtar and Max Gladstone built. So, if you’re looking for a book that challenges you, makes you think, and sweeps you away with an unconventional, heartfelt epistolary love story, I can't recommend 'This is How You Lose the Time War' enough. Don't be deterred if the initial language feels a bit much; lean into it, and you’ll find one of the most rewarding and beautiful stories out there. It’s a compelling journey that leaves a lasting impression, and definitely one that earns its '5 stars' in my personal rating!

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Wow! I’m intrigued

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WHERE CAN I FIND IT????

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