make assumptions about me 🍓

It's so relatable to feel like people might be hesitant to approach you, or to wonder what kind of 'impression' you're giving off! I’ve been there myself, getting caught up in thoughts like, 'Do I look unapproachable?' or 'Am I sending the wrong signals?' It's a common human experience to grapple with how we're perceived, especially when we're trying to understand if someone 'cared for me' or if we just gave off 'that impression.' Sometimes, the way we present ourselves, even unintentionally, can lead to all sorts of assumptions. For instance, our look plays a huge role. From casual hoodies to chic outfits, it's clear we all have diverse styles. It's funny how one day you might be rocking a natural appearance with 'eye bags go crazy,' and the next you're all dressed up, making people think 'I look like 10 different people' (which, by the way, is totally normal and awesome!). Each of these 'looks' can lead to different initial assumptions. Someone might see a serious vibe in one photo, and a playful one in another. Those first few seconds of perception are powerful! Beyond just our outfits, our body language, or even our 'resting face,' can sometimes be misinterpreted. I know for me, sometimes when I'm just deep in thought, I might look a bit intense, and I've had friends jokingly ask if I'm mad! It wasn't intentional at all, but that was the impression I was giving. It’s a great reminder that what we feel on the inside doesn't always translate perfectly to what others see. So, if you're like me and often ponder 'what gave you that impression,' here are a few things I've learned that might help. First, embrace the idea that you might indeed present '10 different people' depending on the moment – that's part of being a complex individual! Second, try to observe how people react to you. Are they smiling back? Do they seem open? Sometimes, a simple, genuine smile can completely change a first impression. Opening up with a casual 'Hey, how's your day going?' can also signal approachability. It's also super brave to ask for direct feedback, just like you're doing. It takes courage to put yourself out there and ask for honest assumptions. Remember, not everyone's impression will be accurate, and that's okay. The key is to understand that perceptions are often just snapshots, and they don't define who you truly are. By being authentic and open, you allow people to see beyond the initial assumptions and discover the real you. Keep sharing your journey and your unique vibe!