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18 years of marriage to what has been

# Consult love

... "unfaithful husband... but I'm still with him."

I was 40 +.

Married for 18 years.

I'm a woman who works regularly.

My husband's part.

Is the middle son of a former provincial adult servant with a social face.

We were married, registered for a big wedding at the hotel, and a lot of adult friends and relatives attended, and I thought I was lucky to marry this guy.

Before Covid, he was a company owner and worked abroad.

After Covid, he returned to Thailand.

Now he works with a public company.

Must travel to work in the province often

May go to sleepover because of late work, but will go home every Friday evening.

We have two children together.

Son 13

Daughter 10

Our outside life seems to be perfect.

I work.

He works

There are big houses, condos, single houses for rent, helping to build a position.

There's a maid nanny to take care of the house and the baby.

We still go to eat together.

Still taking children on family trips together

Sometimes go abroad with the whole family.

If looking from the outside

Many people would think

Our family should be very happy.

But there's one thing.

That no one knows.

.

At that time I began to reach a golden age. We separated the bedrooms.

Many emotions and feelings change.

Finally, a woman came in.

Which starts with being out of the body.

Really want to ask

If it were you... what would you do?

√ Stay for family and children

√ Walk out for your own happiness

√ Stay different, different, like now

Women with marriage and child registries

Should.

Be patient.

Adapt.

Or enough

Really want to know the opinion.

# Fan review# Relationship lesson # Love lesson # Grow up and know that

3/17 Edited to

... Read moreเมื่อแต่งงานกันมานานถึง 18 ปี ชีวิตคู่ย่อมมีทั้งช่วงเวลาที่ดีและช่วงเวลาที่ท้าทายอย่างหลีกเลี่ยงไม่ได้ โดยเฉพาะเมื่อผู้หญิงเริ่มเข้าสู่วัยทองซึ่งส่งผลต่ออารมณ์ ความรู้สึก และความสัมพันธ์ในครอบครัวเรื่องหนึ่งที่หลายคนอาจเข้าใจยากคือการรับมือกับสถานการณ์ที่สามีมีความสัมพันธ์นอกกาย แม้ว่าภายนอกชีวิตครอบครัวจะดูสมบูรณ์แบบและมั่นคง มีบ้านใหญ่โต ลูกที่น่ารัก และฐานะทางการเงินดี สิ่งเหล่านี้ไม่สามารถเติมเต็มช่องว่างทางความรู้สึกในใจได้เสมอไป จากประสบการณ์ของผู้หญิงหลายคนที่เผชิญกับปัญหาเช่นนี้ การตัดสินใจว่าจะอยู่หรือไปนั้นไม่มีคำตอบที่ตายตัว เพราะแต่ละคนมีความต้องการและความอดทนต่างกัน บางคนเลือกที่จะอดทนเพื่อรักษาครอบครัวและให้ลูกได้เติบโตในบรรยากาศที่มีพ่อแม่ครบถ้วน ขณะที่บางคนก็เลือกที่จะเดินออกมาเพื่อรักษาความสุขและความสงบทางจิตใจของตนเอง การอยู่แบบต่างคนต่างอยู่ก็เป็นทางเลือกหนึ่งที่ใช้ได้สำหรับบางครอบครัวที่ยังต้องการความสัมพันธ์ในรูปแบบที่ต่างออกไป นอกจากความรักและความผูกพันแล้ว การสื่อสารเปิดใจและการขอคำปรึกษาจากผู้เชี่ยวชาญอย่างนักจิตวิทยาหรือที่ปรึกษาด้านความสัมพันธ์ ก็ถือเป็นอีกหนึ่งวิธีที่จะช่วยให้ผู้หญิงในวัยนี้สามารถตัดสินใจได้ดียิ่งขึ้น และช่วยให้ทุกฝ่ายได้รับความเข้าใจและความเคารพในความรู้สึกของกันและกัน สุดท้ายแล้ว แม้ชีวิตคู่จะเต็มไปด้วยความซับซ้อนและบททดสอบ แต่ประสบการณ์เหล่านี้ก็เป็นบทเรียนความรักที่สำคัญ เราอาจไม่ได้สมบูรณ์แบบเหมือนที่คนอื่นมองเห็น แต่การเดินหน้าต่อไปด้วยความจริงใจและการยอมรับตัวเอง นั่นคือสิ่งที่มีค่าที่สุดในการใช้ชีวิตคู่

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