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Did you know you ARE ..THAT GIRL?

Hey y’all.. so, a couple months ago one of my best friends commented under one of my TikTok videos I was talking about my skincare routine saying that I was an “IT GIRL” and can I tell you.. the way it made me blush was unreal lol. I didn’t think I was any of that because honestly.. I had the wrong idea. I thought I needed to be posting all the time, be super materialistic, always in heels & makeup but BABY… that is not ME in this era in ANYYYYY way, shape or form lol

Well, being an IT GIRL or THAT GIRL in MY OPINION has to do with some things that are more so UNDER the surface like

1. Prioritizing yourself

2. Creating a healthy routine for you and Your life

3. Having standards, morals, integrity and character

4. Becoming the best and positively version of yourself

5. Understanding that your lane is Your lane and that other IT GIRL is in Her lane and y’all can Both win 🥹❤️

6. (My fave) Notice that success should be measured by the heart!

Do your thing and live an amazing life that fits your life

save for l8tr xoxo -Monie 💋

#embracevulnerability #springbreak #Lemon8Diary #lemon8creator #inspired

2024/4/1 Edited to

In today's world, the concept of being an 'It Girl' or 'That Girl' transcends superficial traits. It emphasizes authenticity, self-care, and personal growth. To truly embody this identity, start by prioritizing your well-being. Make time for activities that nourish your mind and body, such as meditation, fitness, and journaling. Building a healthy routine is essential; it helps you stay grounded and allows you to face daily challenges with confidence. Beyond routines, having strong morals and integrity sets you apart. When you define your own standards, you not only elevate yourself but also inspire those around you. Be willing to celebrate other women, as success is not a competition, but a shared journey. Supporting each other leads to collective empowerment. Lastly, remember that success is subjective. Measure it by personal happiness and fulfillment rather than societal expectations. Live life according to your dreams, and don't be afraid to stand out and shine!

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