Share lessons from 20! 🫑

Happy birthday day to me 21 🤍

Hello, I'm Ta. This is our first post on Lemon8, and since it's just past our birthday, I want to share our thoughts or things that we want to tell ourselves repeatedly in the 21 "s, most of the things we've learned from the 20" s. 💅

1. "Be your own home." 🏠

Learn to live with yourself, take care and take responsibility for your life first, rely on yourself as much as possible, although sometimes there are people who are ready to help us, but no one will stay with us forever.

2. "Try everything." 🏃🏻‍♀️

This age is the age of learning. Want to do anything. Try to get out of the comfort zone a lot. Try even what we thought we couldn't do or never thought to do. Because choosing to do difficult things is equal to getting better and know what the world has for us to try and have a lot to like. Remember that the world is rich enough to always have space for us.

3. "Grow at your own palce." 🚤

The more times we see people in life grow, disperse in their own ways, which is normal, we are not used to it either, but try to tell ourselves not to stick too much to anyone or anything, to be sensitive, to feel things, but not to be weak, and we don't have to be everywhere, just where we are comfortable.

4. "Kind is not a doormat." 🚪

But there must be clear boundaries. This is a year that we have learned a lot about it. Sometimes we are unintentionally happy with others because we think it is so good that they turn around and hurt ourselves like we didn't think, so having clear boundaries from the beginning is also a respect for ourselves and those around us.

5. "Everything leads forward." 😇

Nowadays, no matter what happens, we always tell ourselves that everything that happens is the best, we've heard the phrase, "Life is point to point," everything that happens makes sense, and it's the little point that takes us to the next point in life.

6. "You don't have to rush." 🧡

The last is a verse that we sometimes forget and accidentally put pressure on ourselves, especially in an age when social media is only shown in the way they succeed, but don't forget that everything has its rhythm. Don't rush yourself just because others can go further and live at the right pace.

Finally, I would like to say that today we think this way, but we may change further and no matter who everyone who reads, at what age, everyone can always learn with life, because we are all just students of this world. Don't forget that we can easily enjoy life now and love ourselves as we learn to be every day. 🌷

# thoughtoftheday # Mindgrowth