Hard pills to swallow

I wish I learned what this meant a long time ago. I am so passionate about everything and expect everyone else to be as well. I get disappointed easily and fight battles within myself that I never caused. I remember realizing what it meant by saying “people don’t have the same heart as you” that one cut deep but the one that cut even deeper than that was

“A lot of things broke my heart but fixed my vision”

That pill was hard to swallow. I have always realized that no matter how well you do or how nice you are to people, someone somewhere will 💩 on you.

I guess what I’m trying to say is Just be kind to people, you have no idea what demons they’re fighting 💓

I am the person on the other side- I’m the one who gets the shaft in most situations but I’m thankful I’m strong enough to carry the load. Let’s normalize being nice to people again.

2024/6/11 Edited to

... Read moreLife can deliver some hard pills to swallow, often teaching us crucial lessons about human nature. The realization that not everyone shares the same heart or experiences can be a tough but enlightening truth. As the saying goes, 'Be careful with who you trust; salt and sugar look the same.' It's essential to recognize that everyone is fighting their own battles. The profound statement, 'A lot of things broke my heart but fixed my vision,' highlights the bittersweet clarity gained through hardship. Embracing kindness as a personal ethos can transform interactions and foster understanding in a world where empathy often feels scarce. It's a reminder that a simple act of kindness can have a profound impact on someone's life, especially when they are silently enduring their struggles. Let’s encourage an environment where kindness is normalized, appreciating that each person carries their own burdens. Engaging with others thoughtfully can promote healing, connection, and a kinder society overall.

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