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I stopped explaining. I just became.

I’ve been doing a lot of reflecting on my life…all the events that have led me to where I stand today and I have a deep appreciation for it all. I think that’s important. I think the depravity of life is what should make us as individuals hold tight to our chest who and what we cherish the most. Sometimes life may seem like a never ending cycle of death, lonliness and depression…however it’s crucial to realize that THAT FEELING of overwhelming pressure and dread is temporary. And that cloud will pass. And when that cloud passes the sun’s warmth will envelope you in a tight embrace. For you will have become a new man, a better man for having endured the storm. I just want anyone who got this far in this message to appreciate the ones who appreciate you and to let them know you love them just because they mean that much. Because tomorrow isn’t promised. Love yall Lords and Ladies.

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