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Love is not "fulfillment."

Love is not "fulfillment," but "sharing."

🌱 don't look for love to fill all the absent parts of life, because that will make us people.

"Make a request" and rely on others all the time, but to create happiness on your own and then share that happiness with the person next to you, it will make the relationship lasting and not pressuring.

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