Discipline your children with love, not fear.

Have you ever been?.. ??

When you disobey, we lose patience.

Sometimes accidentally saying that

"If you don't stop, you won't love me!"

This sentence may pause your child's behavior.

But you know, it's slowly undermining your confidence.

And turn "discipline" into "fear" without us even realizing it.

Discipline built on fear.

You may follow, but you don't understand what's right or wrong.

But just afraid of being scolded, punished or losing the love of your parents.

As the fear increases, the child may begin to lie to avoid being blamed.

Discipline built on love

Is to teach your children to understand, not just obey.

Is to be with you the day you make a mistake, not threaten not to love you.

And the most important thing is not just the words, but the "tones" and the "energy" we send out.

A young child may not yet understand complex words, but he perceives them by our countenance, tone of voice, and gesture.

Positive discipline starts with ourselves.

1. Speak to your children with consciousness, without emotion.

2. Set boundaries clear, but do not use threats.

3. Believe that you can learn if you teach with understanding.

We don't need to scare you so you obey.

Just make the baby feel safe enough to open up and learn.

And that's the discipline that grows with love.

If your parents have good techniques or disciplined experiences, you can share them. 👇😊

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