🍊 Techniques Teach Your Child "Sharing": Give with Happiness, Without Feeling Regret Later
These two brothers are both innocent. What they do in this picture is that they are giving things to each other. It is a picture that my mother sees and is very happy. But the reality before that is that tears, feelings of jealousy and regret usually occur after the other person has already received it.
Which he doesn't understand why he gave or sacrificed to someone else.
How, then, can we cultivate this habit of having children deliver things to others with a smile and real heartfelt happiness without later feeling sorry?
1. Not mandatory, but use "appreciation" to navigate
Forcing your child to send toys or snacks to others immediately when we tell them will often create a feeling of "love being taken away" and make the child more possessive. Try to create a positive motivation, such as when you agree to share (even if it is trivial), immediately appreciate:
"I'm so proud of you. Look, when I give his brother an orange to smile, I'm so happy." Pointing out the happiness of the recipient will absorb you as "making the other person happy," and that's an invaluable mental reward.
2. Teach you the word "turn" before "renunciation."
Children below the age of 3-4 do not fully understand the concept of sharing, because they feel that if they give away, they will lose it forever. Parents should start teaching by "turn-taking" using scheduling, such as "this car is played five minutes before the clock rings and the eyes of their friends." This helps the child learn that he still owns it and that he will get it back when the time comes to reduce anxiety and regret.
3. Train your children to be "choosers" of what to share.
Before bringing your friends home or to the playground, talk to your child in advance, giving them the right to choose a toy:
Group 1: The Favorite Toy That The Child Is Not Ready To Divide (Keep In The Cabinet First, To Respect His Feelings)
Group 2: Toys that the baby is pleased and ready to divide for friends to play together.
When children feel that they still have the power to control and protect the most important pieces of love, he opens up and is incredibly willing to share other items.
4. Make it look an example in everyday life
Parents are the best models. Try to share snacks, share food, or share things regularly with family and peers, along with happy gestures such as "Dad is so kind, share delicious snacks for me." When you see that sharing is common in the house and creates a good atmosphere, they naturally imitate that behavior.
Leave a little more:
True sharing is measured not in the value of an item, but in the "willingness" of the giver. Today, if the child is not ready to share, do not scold him for selfishness, give him time to practice calmly and then one day...He will be the perfect giver willingly. ❤️
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