3 questions I ask myself before I style a surface🌸

Decorating used to be very overwhelming for me 😅 I’d overthink EVERYTHING and end up with a space that didn’t really feel like me and just felt cluttered. Once I started asking myself these 3 questions I started creating spaces that I loved and felt peaceful instead of just busy.

1. Does this need to be here?

In my kitchen, I use a basket tray to store our fresh eggs and always have a vase of fresh flowers. It’s functional and pretty, but everything in the tray earns its spot. No random clutter!

2. Does it make me feel good?

When styling spaces like my built in shelves or my coffee table, I prioritize pieces I genuinely love that spark joy. Bigger, intentional items over smaller things that just collect dust.

3. Does it say something about me?

In my son’s room, we use his favorite stuffed animals and books as part of the decor. It adds pops of color and keeps his favorites within easy access. I definitely prefer it over random decor because it shows his personality!

I’ve learned that less is more. I’d rather have one meaningful piece than five random things I picked up just to fill space. This mindset shift has helped my home feel lighter AND helped my mental health.

Let me know if you try this method too!

#lemon8home #lemon8creator #homedecor #3questions #intentionalliving

2025/7/29 Edited to

... Read moreWhen it comes to home decorating, the overwhelming task often stems from trying to fill every space with items that don’t truly serve a purpose or express your individuality. By asking yourself the three critical questions — "Does this need to be here?", "Does it make me feel good?", and "Does it say something about me?" — you usher in a thoughtful approach to decor that balances functionality and personal connection. "Does this need to be here?" encourages decluttering and keeping only items that justify their place in your space. This minimalist approach aligns with popular interior design trends emphasizing clean, open areas that reduce visual noise and improve comfort. Functional yet aesthetic elements, like a basket tray for fresh eggs or a vase with flowers, demonstrate how practicality and beauty can coexist. "Does it make me feel good?" highlights the emotional impact decor has on your mental health. Surrounding yourself with pieces that spark joy fosters a positive environment. Curating your built-in shelves or coffee table with cherished items promotes mindfulness and a sense of peace — crucial elements endorsed by intentional living practices. "Does it say something about me?" ensures your home reflects your unique personality and story. Incorporating meaningful objects, such as your child’s favorite stuffed animals or treasured books, adds color and warmth that generic decor cannot replicate. This personalization makes your home inviting and authentic. Integrating these questions into your styling routine not only results in spaces that feel lighter and more harmonious but also supports your emotional well-being. Simplifying your environment reduces decision fatigue and enhances your ability to relax, echoing findings from psychological studies about clutter’s negative impact. For those looking to dive deeper into intentional and meaningful home decor, exploring trends like minimalism, Scandi design, and biophilic elements can further enhance your space’s ambiance. Additionally, embracing sustainable decor by choosing quality pieces that last helps nurture both the environment and your home experience. Ultimately, these three questions act as a guiding framework for anyone seeking to create a home that’s more than just visually appealing — a sanctuary that honors who you are and supports a fulfilling life.

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