life as a girl in love with a girl (t-9 days until we’re married)

we got our marriage license yesterday & i couldn’t be more excited 🥹 i’ll be riding the high of loving her forever

some photos that didn’t make it onto my instagram featuring lychees, late night adventures, & our love <3

#itgirl #PhotoDump #lovewitch #gratitudephotodiary #wuhluhwuh

6/12 Edited to

... Read moreGetting a marriage license in Colorado is a significant step that marks the transition from a committed relationship to a legally recognized partnership. For LGBTQ+ couples, this moment can be especially meaningful as it represents both personal and social affirmation of their love. From my own experience, the process of obtaining a marriage license requires some careful planning: ensuring both partners have valid identification, meeting any state residency requirements, and sometimes scheduling an appointment with the county clerk’s office. In the days leading up to the wedding, emotions are often a mix of excitement, nervousness, and deep happiness. What helped me was embracing every moment—whether it’s sharing late-night conversations about the future, enjoying simple pleasures like eating lychees together, or capturing spontaneous photos that remind us of our unique bond. These acts create lasting memories beyond the formal ceremony. Moreover, the journey of being a woman in love with a woman comes with beautiful discoveries of self and partnership. Love in this context thrives on mutual respect, understanding, and celebrating each other's individuality. For us, hashtags like #lovewitch and #gratitudephotodiary became symbolic of our storytelling, blending creativity with intimate reflection. If you’re in a similar place—counting down to your wedding or celebrating your love—my advice is to savor the small moments. Behind every big event are countless tiny experiences that shape your relationship. Let gratitude guide your days and find joy in every shared adventure, no matter how ordinary. This approach not only deepens your love but also strengthens your connection for the life ahead.

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