Had a post about how much I paid for a Chinese confinement nanny gain some traction recently, so thought I’d clarify a few things! Here’s what they actually do, why they’re such a big part of traditional Chinese postpartum care, and why they’re different from just hiring a night nanny (and worth ev

Things I think about as a first-time mom over 40 that I don’t always say out loud! 💭 I don’t think there’s a “perfect” age to have a baby, but lately I’ve been thinking a lot about my age, time, motherhood, and the life I lived before her. ✨

Having a Chinese confinement nanny (月嫂) postpartum was such a unique experience, and despite being Chinese, there were so many things I didn’t know going into it! Here are the things I wish I knew—and the tips I’d give anyone considering hiring one after having a baby. #confinementnanny #postpar

I was convinced I wouldn’t need one…then the moment she was born, I instantly regretted it. Thankfully, I found an amazing photographer who was able to squeeze us in when she was around 5 weeks old. 🥹 So grateful to have these little moments captured forever. #newbornphotoshoot #newbornphotograp

Whatever you do, don’t watch Hamnet. Trust me… 😭 #newmom #postpartum

So grateful to my hospital and all the incredible labor & delivery and postpartum staff…but the food definitely left something to be desired. 😂 Thankfully, my Chinese confinement nanny came through the second I got home!! 🥹🍲 #postpartum #confinementnanny

So grateful for my Chinese postpartum nanny for getting me back on my feet (post-C-section!) within days. Lots of protein, iron-rich foods, soups and broths, and more! #confinementnanny #postpartumrecovery