Looking for friends in SG?

UPDATE: Lemon8 has suspended my account for an unknown reason i genuinely dk why and lemon8 refuses to tell me:(, if anyone is interested in this still, you can add me as a friend on discord @ toastboxbread and I will respond from there!

If you need any verification that I’m not a scammer, please let me knowwww don’t be afraid.

🍋 hey zesties!

it can be really tough making new friends outside of work or school — or even finding people who share the same hobbies and interests. :(

so here’s an open invite to a Discord community i’m part of!

it’s SG-based, mixed-gender and strictly for 21+ only. There are 600+ members currently, with a mix of all kinds of people like creatives, entrepreneurs, workaholics, students, sporty ppl, cinephiles, music lovers, and so much more. There’s even a dedicated channel for NSFs 😅🫡

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what it’s about:

we created this space to be safe, inclusive, and chill — a place to hang out, make new friends, and talk about anything under the sun.

beyond online chats, we highly encourage real-life meetups too — it’s how genuine connections are built!

we’re looking for more fresh faces to join us and grow the community 🫶

if you’re interested:

drop me a DM or reply to this post whatever works! and if you can, include:

1. why you’re keen to join (i know this sounds like a job interview 😂 but just share if you're here to chat more, make friends, find ppl for hobbies/sports, etc)

2. whether you’ve used Discord before

3. How old you are! (there’s no age limit, but you need to be 21+)

requirements

✅ 21+ only — no exceptions (it’s for everyone’s safety!) if you want to invite other friends, this also applies to them.

✅ open to chatting and possibly meeting IRL (not a hard rule, but that’s the spirit of the server)

In case you needed to know, I’m 26F and also part of the server! scroll to the last slide for some FAQs :)

Singapore
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... Read moreIf you're new to Discord or hesitant about joining online communities, I totally get it—I was too at first! But this Singapore-based Discord server quickly became a go-to spot for me to meet people beyond work and school. The mix is really diverse, from creative types and entrepreneurs to students and music lovers, so there’s always something interesting to talk about or new friends to meet. One thing I really appreciate is how the community encourages real-life meetups, which helps turn online acquaintances into genuine friendships. They call these "jios," where anyone can host a hangout and others can sign up to join. It’s a great way to socialize in person without the pressure; you just show up, have fun, and meet like-minded people. Worried about safety or being an introvert? The server has clear rules to keep it respectful and harassment-free, and many members are introverts who warmed up over time. You can use an alias and keep your profile low-key if you prefer. Personally, I felt at ease knowing there are active moderators ensuring a friendly environment. The server isn’t just about gaming either, although that’s part of it. Most conversations revolve around daily chats, hobbies, local Singaporean topics, and sharing experiences. It’s 100% free to join, with no strings attached—just chip in if you attend offline meetups. If you’re over 21 and looking to make meaningful connections while exploring passions with others in Singapore, I highly recommend giving this Discord server a try. Reach out to the admin or reply to the original invite with a bit about why you want to join and your experience with Discord. It’s honestly been one of the best ways for me to meet new friends and feel part of a community during my time in Singapore.

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hi I'm interested, can I have the link? thank you 🤩👍

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