Sense of distance after retirement 🥺 husband "Do it!!" Before getting angry💦
To my retired husband, I just said, "Hey, do it!"
Do you ever feel like you're about to hit your frustration? 🫣💦
Third day of retirement.
The scenery of my house in the morning is starting to change little by little.
I'm gonna go live at nine.
"What should we talk about today?" "How about cooking?"
The 8 o'clock mode competes for 1 minute 1 second ⚡
Next to it, my husband eats breakfast leisurely ☕️
They prepare and clean up by themselves,
Overlapping with my tingling time, I just...
"Eat a little faster and do the dishes quickly..."
And a complaint came up to my throat.
I almost forced my rhythm on the other person.
But then I realized.
Even when my husband was working hard from early morning to late at night
"I'm making money, so you do it."
I never said that word.
I don't even tell the other person what I'm told is painful.
It's not a condition of exchange that says, "I did this, so give it back to you."
Being in a relationship that doesn't ask for anything in return,
I really thought that it was the best liver to be a couple 🌱
How are you all?
There are moments when your husband gets angry, right? 😂
Please let me know your episode in the comments section 👇💬
\ storage required 💡 tips of toro toro boiled pork that does not fail /
Our classic "boiled pork" made in the video 🐷
Busy housewife ally, just introduce the tips that do not fail just warm and plunge!
✅ use thick-sliced steak meat (the thickness is just right!)
✅ broth is never stingy! (The cause of failure is the lack of sauce. Plenty of meat soaked in the bath 🛁)
✅ Turn off the heat and keep warm (just leave it to ✨)
✅ Dobon "soft-boiled egg" when cooled (exquisite pickled egg is completed 🥚)
Since it is a recipe that is definitely said to be "made again!,"
Please press the [Save Mark] in the lower right and try it on the weekend 👇✨
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📢 * * Every morning 9: 00 ~ during the live delivery of real everyday! * *
Tomoko Arakan 👉 _ secondlife
Real worries and challenges in their 50s, such as the story behind the care of parents, we talk happily every day while cooking 😊
Please come and visit us ✨
定年後の夫婦生活は、生活リズムの変化や役割の見直しなど、新たな課題が出てきます。特に夫が仕事を辞めて家にいる時間が増えると、これまで感じなかったすれ違いやイライラを感じやすくなります。私自身の経験からも、夫がのんびり朝食をとる姿に焦りを感じ、「もっと早く動いてほしい」と思うことがありました。 しかし、夫の長年の働きぶりや配慮を振り返ることで、互いに見返りを求めず、自然な気持ちで日々を過ごすことの大切さを学びました。これは「交換条件」ではない本当の夫婦関係と言えます。相手を変えようとするより、自分の心の余裕を作ることが、ストレス軽減に大きくつながります。 また、夫婦のコミュニケーションを円滑にするために、感謝の言葉を意識的に伝えることや、生活の中で役割分担を柔軟に見直すことも良い方法です。例えば、家事や食事の準備はお互いのペースを尊重し、無理なく協力し合うことで、無用な衝突を避けられます。 さらに、忙しい毎日の中でホッとできる時間を持つことも心の健康に役立ちます。私の場合、夫婦で一緒においしい料理を楽しむ時間を大切にしています。記事で紹介した「失敗しないトロトロ煮豚」は、簡単に作れるのにとても喜ばれる料理です。厚切りの肉を使い、煮汁をたっぷり使って保温調理する方法は忙しい方にもおすすめです。半熟卵を加えることで満足度もアップし、夫婦の会話も弾みます。 定年後の新しい生活には戸惑いやストレスもつきものですが、相手を理解し、自分の気持ちを見つめ直すことで、より深い信頼関係と穏やかな毎日を築けます。皆さんもぜひ、自分たちのペースで楽しく過ごす工夫を取り入れてみてくださいね。