Breathtaking... 😭 retired husband‼️
Living in the same living room with my retired husband 24 hours a day.
Honestly, do you ever feel a little suffocating? 🫣💦
My husband retired for a week.
By having my husband in the living room, which was my own world until now,
"I feel like I'm being watched." "It might be annoying."
I have also experienced this feeling 😂
But because we're always together,
"Trying to change the other person" makes it difficult for each other.
Then I realized the ideal shape of the couple from now on.
That's what I introduced in the video 🍽️✨
For example, today's cooking.
I love coriander, but my husband 🌿
Instead of saying "I don't buy it because my husband hates it (I will endure it),"
"Put plenty on mine, and set aside my husband's without coriander."
It's on the same plate, but the taste is different.
My husband was pleased with "consideration" and I was very satisfied with "I was able to eat what I liked"!
I think this is the same with marital relationships.
Even if we sit on the same sofa, my husband reads economics books and I read travel books 📖✈️
While sharing the same space, we respect each other's "likes" and "individual world."
Not forcing too much is the biggest secret for mature couples to spend comfortably 🌱
When your husband is always at home,
How do you secure your time and "likes"?
If you have any rules or ideas for my house, please let me know in the comments section 👇💬
\ Save required 💡 Today's praise recipe /
"Ethnic minced meat boat" made in the video ⛵️
Even though it is simple, the table becomes gorgeous, it is a new standard of my home!
[Ingredients & How to make]
✅ Tiny Chouchou (mini Chinese cabbage) or lettuce into a boat shape
✅ minced meat in sesame oil
✅ ginger and garlic (tube OK!)
✅ tomato cubes make it look cute and taste 🍅
✅ seasoned with oyster sauce and doubanjiang (optional).
✅ roasted meat on a vegetable boat
🌿 finish, if you like it, top it with a heap of coriander!
Hot minced meat and crunchy vegetables go well together 🤤
If you get lost in tonight's side dishes, press the [save mark] in the lower right
Please make it 👇✨
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Tomoko Arakan 👉 _ secondlife
Real worries and challenges in their 50s, such as the story behind the care of parents, we talk happily every day while cooking 😊
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定年退職後、これまで自分だけの空間だったリビングを夫と24時間共有する生活は、思った以上にストレスを感じることがありますよね。私も同じ経験をして感じたのは、無理に相手を変えようとするのではなく、お互いの違いを認め合いながらも尊重し合うことの大切さです。 『同じ皿で違う味作戦』はまさにその象徴。食卓でも同じ皿に乗せていても、夫はパクチーなし、私はたっぷりと。それが夫の配慮を感じさせ、私の満足感にもつながります。この考え方は料理だけでなく、日常生活のあらゆる場面で応用できます。 例えばソファで過ごす時間も、同じ空間にいても、夫は経済の本を読み、私は旅行の本を楽しむ。それぞれの「好きなこと」を許容することで、息苦しさが減り、居心地のよい空間になります。さらに、それぞれの趣味を尊重し合えるように、専用の時間や場所を作ることもおすすめです。 私の経験では、朝の1時間は一人で趣味に没頭する時間と決めてリラックスしたり、週に1回は別々の外出を楽しむ日を作るとストレス軽減に効果的でした。また、テレビのチャンネルや音楽もお互いの好みに合わせて交代制にするなど、小さな工夫が積み重なって快適な共生が生まれました。 定年後の夫婦生活は、24時間一緒にいるからこそ、自由と尊重のバランスが重要だと痛感しています。皆さんもぜひ自分たちに合った「ルール」や「工夫」を見つけて、穏やかで幸せな時間を過ごしてくださいね。 最後に、記事でも紹介されているエスニック風ひき肉ボートは、簡単で華やかにテーブルを彩り、夫婦の食卓にも新たな楽しみを与えてくれる一品です。私も家族でよく作って楽しんでいます。ぜひ試してみてください！