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Are homemade cakes annoying?💔😭

I was told that it was a nuisance on SNS, and when I told my son that I would buy it this year, my son got angry.

My son's "true words" that could not be told in the video 👇

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I'm really bad at making sweets đŸ’Ļ

Last year, when I made a cake for my second son's birthday, the whipped cream separated.

We received harsh comments such as "It's a nuisance for children to make a poor handmade product" and "Leave it to a professional."

So this year, I told my second son, "I'll buy a delicious cake!"

And then...

"If you don't want to celebrate, you don't need cake."

My son went on to say.

"I don't want to eat to fill my stomach. As a symbol of celebration, I want to feel happy to be born!!"

I got it.

What he was looking for was not the "perfect cake" like a professional, but the "feeling" that the clumsy mother worked hard to make.

Tomorrow my second son will be 18 years old.

Even though it is a passing point for parents, it is a special day called "adult" for children now.

I will do my best to make a "clumsy celebration" that is not appropriate and can only be done now 🎂✨

After all, it is not the correct answer whether to make it by hand or buy it, but the most important thing is to understand what the other person wants 😌

👇 question for everyone!

Birthday cake for children and family, everyone

Are you a handmade person or a buying person?

Let me know in the comments ✨

(Failure episodes are also welcome đŸ¤Ŗ)

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