Regardless of age!! 😱 That's a lie💦

Don't you believe the words "age doesn't matter"?

I couldn't tell you the truth about what I learned in my 20s 👇

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It doesn t matter your age!

Believing that, have you ever had the experience of forcibly acting young or pretending to know when joining a group of young people? 💦

Actually, when I first started using SNS, there were all young creators in their 20s and 30s around me, and I felt very poor.

My SNS teacher is 26 years old! He is almost the same age as my son 🤣

At first, I was worried that people might think, "Why did this mother come here?," so I made a wall on my own, saying, "I'm an aunt."

However, at an off-meeting where young people gather, I took the plunge and changed my strategy.

"I'm 55 years old and don't understand IT at all! Nice to meet you!"

And at first, I tried to expose my age and weaknesses with "Spaan!."

And then... no one pulled back, but rather, they were very kind and taught me various things 😭✨

There is no such thing as "age does not matter." Since we have lived in different times, it is natural that there is a generation gap!

If someone asks you, "Don't you even know that?," you can just say, "I didn't know! Tell me!" and have fun 🤣

Instead of acting strangely young, or on the contrary, saying "I'm an aunt anyway,"

Multiply 55 years of "life experience" with "courage to be taught" to rely on obediently.

By doing so, age barriers will disappear and generations will be able to enjoy together 🌿

👇 question for everyone!

Recently, have you consulted with younger people or the younger generation, "Tell me this!"

(Episodes such as "I heard it because I didn't understand young people's language at all!" are also welcome 🤣)

Let me know in the comments ✨

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Real worries and challenges in their 50s, such as the story behind the care of parents, we talk happily every day while cooking 😊

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若い世代のコミュニティに初めて飛び込むときは、年齢の違いからくる不安や引け目を感じることが多いですよね。私もSNSを始めた頃、周りが20代や30代ばかりで最初は自分が浮いているように感じていました。そんな時に効果的だったのが、まず自分の年齢や分からないことを隠さずに素直にさらけ出すことです。これによって相手も自然と壁をふっと軽くしてくれます。さらに「教わったことはすぐ実行し、結果を報告する」という姿勢も重要です。若者からのアドバイスをたんに聞くだけでなく、行動に移しフィードバックすることで、信頼関係を築くことができました。これは人生経験という武器と素直さを掛け合わせて、世代を超えたコミュニケーションを可能にする秘策の一つです。もう一つは、失敗談や苦労話を笑いに変えて共有すること。若い世代も人生のリアルな話に共感しやすく、お互いの距離がぐっと縮まります。若ぶったり、自分を卑下し過ぎるのではなく、ありのままの自分と経験値を武器にすることで、自然に世代の壁は消えていきます。私の経験では、若者の言葉や流行を分からなくて聞き直したりすることも、意外とコミュニケーションのきっかけになります。恥ずかしがらずに「教えて！」と言えることで、相手も嬉しくなり、新しい交流が生まれやすくなります。こうした素直な姿勢は新しい学びや発見にも繋がり、自分自身の成長にもなりました。若い世代との交流を楽しみたい方は、ぜひ自分の経験と素直さを組み合わせて、心の壁を取り払ってみてください。世代を超えた繋がりが生まれ、毎日の生活やSNSの世界がもっと楽しく広がるはずです。