I’ve been scared to read this book…😬🦋

Okay, so you've heard me talk about diving back into the Daisy Haites series by Jessa Hastings, even after the first one completely shook me to my core. It really embodies that whole 'do it scared' philosophy, doesn't it? It’s not just about books for me; it’s about facing any challenge that feels a bit daunting but promises a huge payoff, whether that's an intense workout, a tough conversation, or, yes, picking up a book you know will mess with your emotions. For me, 'doing it scared' with a book like this means acknowledging the emotional impact it's going to have, but still choosing to step into that story. It's about understanding that sometimes the most memorable, impactful reads are the ones that push you out of your comfort zone. I mean, who wants to only read fluffy, predictable stories all the time? Don't get me wrong, I love those too, but there's something uniquely satisfying about finishing a book that challenged you. When I started Daisy Haites on my Kindle e-reader, I knew it wasn't going to be an easy ride. Jessa Hastings has a way of crafting characters and plots that just dig under your skin. And honestly, isn't that what we secretly crave as readers? That feeling of being completely engrossed, even if it means a few sleepless nights or needing to take a walk on the treadmill just to process everything? If you're like me and find yourself drawn to these kinds of intense, 'scary' reads, here are a few things I've learned that help me 'do it scared' successfully: Acknowledge the Fear (or Stress): Don't pretend it's not going to be a tough read. Give yourself permission to feel whatever emotions the book brings up. It's okay to be stressed, sad, or even a little angry at the characters or plot. Build in Coping Mechanisms: Like my treadmill tactic! For you, it might be journaling after a particularly intense chapter, talking to a book buddy, or scheduling a lighthearted show or book for after you finish the heavy one. Self-care is key when you're emotionally invested. Take Breaks (But Don't Quit!): It's perfectly fine to put the book down for a bit if it gets too overwhelming. Go for a walk, listen to music, do something completely unrelated. Just make sure you come back to it. The satisfaction of finishing is worth it. Embrace the Discussion: One of the best parts about reading a 'scary' or intense book like Daisy Haites is talking about it with others. Head to book groups, forums, or even just chat with friends who've read it. Sharing those reactions helps to process the story. Remember Why You Started: There's usually a reason we pick up these books – maybe a compelling blurb, a friend's recommendation, or a genre we love. Hold onto that curiosity and the desire to see how the story unfolds. So, next time you're looking at a book that feels a little intimidating, whether it's a genre you're new to, a particularly long classic, or an emotionally charged story like those from Jessa Hastings, remember to 'do it scared.' You might just discover your next favorite read, and a little bit more about your own resilience along the way. Happy reading!