Romanticize your life challenge!

So I have been trying to find new ways to be happy. I have chronic depression and PTSD. I tried for ages the fake it till you make it and it never worked. I have realized now that that’s because when you’re faking it you’re doing it for other people… this is why I have gotten into romanticizing my life.

I encourage all of you currently trying to get out of a rut to take a picture of anything that made you feel a little closer to peace and a little closer to your inner self and post it on Lemon8 a day just for a week even just the weekend and see what it does for you! Use the hashtag #romanticizeyourlife and peep some of the posts under that tag. Everything can be romantic. 🫶🏻 thanks for joining me one this journey girlies!!

2024/3/29 Edited to

... Read moreSo, I've been on this incredible journey of learning to truly live rather than just exist, especially after navigating some really tough times with my mental health. You know those days when everything feels gray? I used to feel that often. But then, I stumbled upon the concept of romanticization – and it's been a game-changer for me. It's not about pretending everything is perfect, but rather intentionally finding and savoring the beauty in the little things that make up our everyday lives. Think about it: have you ever watched a movie and wished your life had that kind of charm? That's what romanticization aims to do, but for your actual life. It's about consciously creating moments that feel special, appreciating the details that might otherwise pass us by. For me, it started with simple things. Instead of just grabbing a mug, I'd choose my favorite one, make my coffee mindfully, and actually sit by the window to enjoy it. It sounds small, but these little things add up. If you're wondering how to start, it's easier than you think! One of my favorite ways is to transform mundane tasks into delightful rituals. For instance, making breakfast isn't just fuel; it can be an experience. I love setting up a cozy spot, maybe even brunching on the patio if the weather's nice, and truly savoring every bite. Or, when I'm walking, I try to notice the way the light hits the leaves, the patterns in the sidewalk, or the sound of birds. It's all about being present and letting those small joys wash over you. Another tip I've found incredibly helpful is to engage all my senses. Light a candle while you're working, put on some comforting music, or wrap yourself in a soft blanket. These sensory inputs can drastically change your mood and elevate an ordinary moment into something magical. It’s about curating your environment and your mindset. The benefits? Oh, they're immense! For me, it’s been a powerful tool against the overwhelming feelings of depression and anxiety. It shifts my focus from what's missing to what's abundant. It fosters a deep sense of gratitude and helps me feel more connected to myself and the world around me. You start to realize what your life would be like if you just paid a little more attention, if you embraced the idea that every day holds potential for beauty. That's why I started this challenge on Lemon8. I truly believe that by sharing these moments, we not only inspire each other but also reinforce our own practice of romanticization. So, I really encourage you to snap a picture of anything that brings you a tiny spark of peace or joy, post it, and see the ripple effect it has. Let's make every day a little more enchanting, one little thing at a time. You deserve to feel that magic!

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